We're still very much in love and happy.
On here, I've had some very hatefull and judgemental things said to me. Mostly from fat lonely women and men.
Anyhow, it would be nice to see more people to see for themselves whats out there. In other words, don't knock it until you tried it!
How many of you have fantasised about this and are uneasy about trying it?
Haters and critcs don't waste your time on this.
2007-02-04 06:45:14 · 5 answers · asked by Crazy Bi Chick 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
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2007-02-04 06:46:29 · update #1
"Anyhow, it would be nice to see more people to see for themselves whats out there. In other words, don't knock it until you tried it!"
I've said almost the same thing, except I'm not sure if I'd really want a bunch of swinger-wannabes just jumping off the deep end without doing their homework. It's exactly where the "My-husband-forced-me-to-swing -and-it-ruined-our-marriage" stories come from. The water in here is fine as it is, I think, and I'd rather not have a whole lot of unwelcome party-crashers pi**ing in our pool. If ya know what I mean. :)
But I hear what you're saying! There are a LOT of big talkers on here, but I have to wonder how many of them have actual 1st hand experience to back up their very loud opinions?
2007-02-05 08:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some friends that swing, they absolutely love it. They love each other, but keeps their relationship strronger by doing this. I have thought about doing this with them, but not sure how my husband would react. I think its hot as hell and as long as you both agree, there will be no need in going behind each others backs having affairs. You go. Have fun, and maybe one day I will experience it. Hopefully soon!!!!
2007-02-04 14:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by latasha 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have thought about it many times. I used to do all the threesomes and stuff when i was single but now i'm married, i dont want to mess up our marriage, but i do fantasize about it frequently.
2007-02-04 14:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by big stan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We thought about it. We even met a couple on line and had dinner with them, but decided it wasn't for us. We have stayed friendly with them, but we don't swing with them. It seems to make them happy, so I've nothing against it. It just is not for us.
2007-02-04 14:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not sure what you are asking exactly.
2007-02-04 14:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by somebody 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋