She doesn't know and I'm not suppose to know ( I was fake sleeping when my cousin [his step daughter who along with another one of my other aunts] told my grandma about it.) I'm worried that he might not be using condoms and that my aunt might get something. what am I suppose to do?
2007-02-04 05:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by Conseption 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm 14 5'7 and 150 pounds, he's a 40-something 5'6 250 pound corrections officer, I can't confront him.
2007-02-04 06:10:39 · update #1
Honey, it's simple yet a hard thing to do.
Tell your aunt that you feel your uncle is not treating her right.and that your suspicions may be warranted
Let her know, because you can either save her from further abuse, and perhaps may even save her health (with your suspicion of condom use).
Be brave, and be strong. Warning though, she may react and resent you for bringing it to light, however, you can only introduce the report, it would be upto her what she does with it.
Good luck.
bga
2007-02-04 06:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by bga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay you know what? she's a nut case and if he's willing to believe this crap to protect his ego, then he deserves her. Sorry for you, not sorry for him. Take the high road, don't talk her down too cause then you'll really seem like the problem, shell say "see? look what this person is doing to me!" Remember that the truth will always come out - she'll do this again sometime, he'll understand, then he'll feel so bad for hurting you, and so bad about believeing her the first time. How the heck do you "trap" any one into having an affair? Some people are so willing to be deluded.
2016-05-24 04:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about it, this is not a kids place to be and that's what you get for being snoopy.
Now what are you supposed to do now that you have found out this information, you cant say anything cause everyone will know you snooped.
Plus you are a child leave adult work to the adults.
And you talk about how big you are in comparison to him like he might try to beat you up.................he best not do that.
If he is 5'6" and 250lbs don't worry he wont get many men not looking like that he must be really huge.
And mind your own business from now on!
2007-02-04 10:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since all those other people know about it(cousin, other aunt, grandma)one of them is bound to say something. It will all come out eventually. Don't put yourself in harms way.
2007-02-04 07:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by Alias400 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey ok this is very very seriouse and if he isnt using a condom , then thats dangerouse. beacuse the only wat 2 men have IT is threw ...
therefore contracting lots of bacteria. n it goes in ur aunt.
i think you should tell her aunt only wen u have proof cuz she might not want to accept the truth if u have an older bro or sis or cuzen or family friend. tell them of ur new knowledge n or tell her grany u heard wat they said n keep in mind they mihgt not want to discuss it further with u. so if u have small recording device record ur convo. or the man must be send ur uncle some voice mall. wen ur uncle isnt around try send the voice mall to ur aunt or to ur self . then play it. remember wen u tellin ger dont sound so confident czu that might make her thing u dun like him u want him out!!
try to sound suprised or hurt and confused but u noe wat u heard.
or u can try to talkin 2 ur uncle and tell him u noe his secret and that if he doesnt tell her a soon as possible like today *( the day u confront him) den u will tell her and it might be easier ( her judgement) if she heard it from him
i pray to god he got the man tested b4 they did wat they did for the sake of ur aunt.
kk hope that helped
Go0D LuCk!!!!
2007-02-04 06:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by Leila A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your aunt to make sure she uses condoms with him.
I'm sorry but I would definately tell my aunt if I knew her man was cheating on her. I don't care if it's with a man or woman.
2007-02-04 07:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not your business.
Leave it to your other aunt, the grandma, and the step daughter to be the vicious gossips.
2007-02-04 06:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay out of the whole damned thing. You ain't seen your uncle shag another guy have you? And if this crap is true...you don't want to be the one to break your aunts heart.
2007-02-04 06:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by unclassified_yeti_smurf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so, the situation is this: you heard his stepdaughter tell your grandma that he is cheating on your aunt with other men - do I get that right?
first, you don't know if it's true
second, if his stepdaughter told your grandma then she probably had already told your aunt
third, it's really none of your business
2007-02-04 06:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay but Infidelity has No Bounds of being Gay or Straight If he's going to be Un faithful to your aunt let him, she'll leave him.
2007-02-04 06:28:33 · answer #10 · answered by tfoley5000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋