I'm married with a son. I love them both very much but I don't have hardly any libido. My best friend who was not a lesbian is gone (we did have a couple of encounters but that's it). I don't have any female friends that I feel close too. I feel I would like to make friends with a lesbian woman (not necessarilly have sex), just to learn about it. I am very confused. My husband and I fight about sex. I just feel so alone. Can anyone identify with what I'm going thru?
2007-02-04 05:55:37 · 6 answers · asked by donna w 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I wouldn't say you are lesbian, if you don't have any libido there can be different reasons for that, have you seen a doctor?
maybe you just need a female friend to talk with, who wouldn't judge, wouldn't fight with you but who would listen to you and support you
I'm not a doctor or anything but maybe it's just a midlife crisis you are going through
2007-02-04 06:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have talked to a couple lesbians who were in relationships with men. And the one thing that they said were they felt lonely even with the men even while having sex with them. It was pretty sad. Maybe you can find a friend on a chatroom or on yahoo personals or something. You can email me if you want at kirklandj20@hotmail.com. I'm a good listener.
2007-02-04 07:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going throw.I kissed a lady in high school a long time ago but ever sense then.I was thinking about it but Am a little bit scared of it.Of Crusoe me and that friend ain't friends any longer.Every time I try talking to another lady friend they gust back away from me.So I know only have guys for Friends.
2007-02-04 06:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be concerned with the answers concerning your low libido, it may increase with a women. Can I identify...absolutely!
2007-02-04 09:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't jump to sexual orientation conclusions just yet..
if you have no desire for sex, could be hormones. check with your doctor.. or it could be you have fallen out of love with your man. you can still love him, yet not desire sex.. maybe marriage councilling is needed?
that's good that you had a few experimental sessions with your female friend.. do you find yourself attracted to most women? or just your friend? is it just a sexual desire, or do you actually feel you want a relationship/romance with another woman?
it's ok to be curious and confused. but doesn't sound like your relationship is healthy with your man.
i'm a bisexual male who is transgendered (i feel i should have been born a woman), so i tend to relate well to females.. if you'd like to chat further, please feel free to e-mail me thru my profile
2007-02-04 06:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No libido? Do think lesbians don't have sex?
2007-02-04 06:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by popeyethesadist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋