I care about him and want to end it the best way possible... any good ideas?
2007-02-04 05:48:37 · 10 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well what I did was I went out to dinner with him and during dinner I said that I needed to end the benefits portion of our friendship. I had just started a serious relationship and needed to be free and clear of all other physical entanglements. He understood, was disappointed, but understood what we had was temporary. We remained friends.
2007-02-04 06:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It was open and always truthful so if she was with someone else I knew and vice-versa. I wanted it like that. 2 years and still running. It didn't. I have no idea because I am one strange person. And finally it was not too many questions. Infaxt I like answering a whole group of questions cuz it makes it clear that I am answering your question properly. I also think it is interesting how human nature and how we grow up affects what sort of people we will be attracted to. I personally have been analysing my own prefferences to a certain girl. I have been reading 'The Forgotten Senses' and I hav learned how sounds and colors affect how we speak, eat or even walk. I also have dabbled in researching love. Love is saftey so prefferences in relation ships can be dermined by how someone feels when they are around them. A person like me fears nothing (cept spiders). So it is easy for me to fall for a girl. However my realtionships aren't always strong because only two girls have broken my heart and th second one wasn't all that harsh. Attachments arent real strong for me cept videogames, music, honor, knowledge, women and winning. If I wrote too much or if I was offtrack sorrys. But I say good questions deserve good answers.
2016-05-24 04:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you "care" about someone who has done nothing but use you as a recepticle for his bodily fluids? That's the problem with "friends with benifits" type relationships. You start to care while the other person is just in it to use you...My suggestion...just tell him it's "over", that you want something more than to be used, then walk away.
2007-02-04 05:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
What aspect about him to care about.
Well, irregardless of that, the best way to end a friends with benefits relationship is to find him another girl who would love his sweet favors. Just in time for Valentine's Day!
2007-02-04 06:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not respond to the "CALLS" to come by.... then when asked what up? let him know u care too much about him and that its pretty much time to end the benefits...fiendhsip is ok? i assume? so le thim know that.... if hes is a real friend then it will go ok. if not then he will dissapear and u dont need him anyways....
2007-02-04 05:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by The Go to Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start seeing someone else. Move on and stop sleeping with him!
2007-02-04 05:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him.....that's what those relationships are about, right?
2007-02-04 05:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have a BF and that ends the sex
2007-02-04 05:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u can't go on like that
2007-02-04 05:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel
2007-02-04 05:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by shayla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋