2007-02-04 05:32:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, if you really feel this is the case, don't marry him. If he's doing that now, he'll do it again later.
2007-02-04 05:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Gary D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fiance no more! Go visit Repsect Land. Take a stroll down Pride & Joy Blvd; And get far away from Disprespect Drive. Your Heart is too Beautiful to be live any other place.
2007-02-04 05:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Why would you want to enter a marriage not trusting your husband? You two need to work out what ever issues you have. And you need to get to the bottom of the cheating thing. Confront him. Find out if he is really cheating or not. If he isn't, then the both of you need to work on your trust issues. You have to have all that resolved before you walk down the isle.
2007-02-04 05:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously don't trust him (and fyi, if he has lied in the past then you have every right not to trust him); why would you marry someone you do not trust and who you believe may be cheating ALREADY?
Do not marry him until you work out your trust issues and/or find out for sure if your suspicions are correct.
2007-02-04 05:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by bcs_boadicea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't marry him. You should run away and never look back.
Some marriages that start off with complete trust, end up in divorce. Starting off with distrust and cheating already going on is a pretty good indication of a doomed marriage. Please think about it. Remember, a broken engagement is much better than a broken marriage. You deserve better.
2007-02-04 05:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not mind being married to a lier and a cheater, then marry him. If that bothers you, cut your losses and move on. I know it is easier said than done, but you do not have to say in the future "I should have never married him".
You are already asking the question that is your intuition as a woman warning you. Listen to it o.k.
2007-02-04 05:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to enter into something as serious as a marriage with someone that lies to you and you obviously don't trust.Trust is everything in a relationship/marriage without TRUST you have nothing.I suggest you seriously re-think about the man that you are engaged to to.If you enter into a marriage now you will only end it in divorce.Good Luck.
2007-02-04 05:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think that he is cheating you prolly r right..cuz em boyz now a day lmao; but yeah... well he shouldn't be lying to u in da first place czu thats not what a relationship is supposed to be about ... i think that u should do what is right and try to talk to him and see what his side of the story is and the best thing to do is try and talk and not get into a big argument..
and if tells you that he wohn't do it again, and that he loves u, iguess tha you can fogive. him. just talk cuz he prolly doesn't know how you are feeeling unless you talk to him :)
2007-02-04 05:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by jbaby443 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not marry anyone unless the trust is there if you are unsure now you will be unsure later and you will be un happy throughout the course of your marriage and get divorced any ways. If you love him try to work it out if you are not sure if you want to then ther's your answer. Be strong and keep your head up never do anything unless your sure.
2007-02-04 05:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by benny619 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true marriage is for the rest of your life. If these things are going on that is not a healthy relationship to begin with let alone spending the rest of your life with this person.
2007-02-04 05:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by tendertigress2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask that question??? Of course you should NOT marry a person you don't trust and think is cheating. Why would you even want to? You are a patsy if you think he has changed his ways, bump this bozo to the curb!
2007-02-04 05:38:20 · answer #11 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋