hes a very good friend??!!??!!??!!??!!??!!??!!??!1
2007-02-04 05:14:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
just give up on him
2007-02-04 05:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, ask yourself what sense it makes to love someone who doesn't think enough of you to love you in return. Also, aren't you just helping yourself be miserable by having him as a good friend, considering the fact that your feelings for this boy run much deeper than friendship?
You sound very young. My suggestion is work on loving yourself first. Work on raising your self-esteem and self-confidence. You have your whole life to love in love. And you deserve to be loved in return.
2007-02-04 13:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by loveblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing else but keeping him as a good friend. May your feelings be so strong and intense at this moment that it's quite difficult to see anything else but your sadness and disappointment, but if he is a good friend, you will appreciate to keep his friendship without going farther. If it is unbearably painful, stop seeing him.
One more thing: love yourself more than anyone else in the world. You deserve it.
2007-02-04 13:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Smurfette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just continue to be friends. give him time and if its meant to be then itll happen. if its not meant, then it wont. maybe youre just supposed to be really close friends. another thing, not tosoubt u or anything but i know ive said that i loved someone and it turns out i just liked them and was in love with the idea of being "in love". please dont take that the wrong way. i really hope everything works out. if not... join the singles club! im the president! kidding! good luck!
2007-02-04 14:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by gnell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. put this question in the dating or friends section unless this is a myth
2. get over loving him because chances are he won't ever love you except as a friend
3. get a new crush - it seems like you'll do that in a week or so
2007-02-04 13:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mike H 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. Ask yourself this...do you value the friendship more, or this possible relationship? Which would you be willing to sacrifice? That helped me to realize that, at least for me, it wasn't wise to pursue anything and I valued his friendship more than that.
2007-02-04 13:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by lotusmoon01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to greener pastures. In other words, go find another guy that actually likes you back.
2007-02-04 13:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop back 20 and punt.
2007-02-04 15:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a dude, my opinion is just to leave him alone about it. Hang out, do what you normally do, just don't keep asking or bringing it up.
2007-02-04 14:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Spartacus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends with him and let him know the offer is still open
2007-02-04 19:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋