My best friend jade is getting really bossy ever since this new girl called chloe came and now people are saying that jade is chloe's best friend and now everytime i phone her she says she is talking to chloe and she'll call me back but she doesnt.The baddest part of it is when we where going swimming together there was only 2 locker rooms and the shared one together and while they where in there i heard a uh uh noises talk about ewww what do you think i should do
2007-02-04 05:00:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i also saw them have sex
2007-02-04 05:08:47 · update #1
i also saw them have sex
2007-02-04 05:13:51 · update #2
Just be yourself, let it be if they're getting close. If your friendship is meant to be it'll endure despite this difficult phase.
2007-02-04 05:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Miss Judgemental, what is your problem? So your best friend met someone else, why don't you. I'll tell you why, because with an attitude like yours nobody wants you. We are all different and it is not our job to judge, okay so it hurt you to find out about your friend but that doesn't change you or what you are able to achieve. If you want to remain friends with her then talk to her and tell her you understand, if not cut all ties and get on with your life! I really hope this works out for you because even though I sound as if I am preaching, I just don't like people to get hurt and if that means moving on, then so be it. The very best of luck.xxx
2007-02-07 07:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by maria bartoninfrance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make new friends and don't talk about your other friend. If someone ask you what is going on you say: "Nothing that I am aware of" and if you think your friend is being a 2 faced traitor you talk to her alone and tell her that it hurts you or bothers you. Also that she doesn't need to choose between you and her new friend. Tell her you will always be her friend even if you guys don't hang out as often as you used to.
If she doesn't take that in consideration then you need to get a new best friend because that one never was your friend to begin with
2007-02-04 05:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by cgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still want to be friends with Jade? If you do, talk with her, she's your best friend. Explain how left out you feel, maybe she doesn't realize.
If you are sickened by jade's new friend, chloe....then find a new friend.
2007-02-04 05:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this happen to me too. I know that it's hurting and you want to hang out with them. I would say that you'll get over it if you just leave her but I know you probably won't because of my experience. The best thing to do would be to talk to her in private and express your concerns. Just remember that there are lots of people to hang out with, they may not be your closest friends but you'll find someone to hang out with. It could also just be a phase she's going through.
2007-02-04 05:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Cerantine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a little bi+ch! Stop hanging out with her. I mean, if she is going to treat you that way, she dosnt deserve a great friend like you. I bet you were always there for her, but will she always be there for you? When she starts wondering why you dont talk to her, tell her off, like you just did to us. Good Luck!!
2007-02-04 05:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwwwwwwww hunni i know how yooh feel this is happening to me aswell! as i have 3 best friends and they seem to do everything together without me! what i would do is have a word with them and tell them how you feel! and if they respond with something nasty go and find some new friends! or maybe this new girl just wants attention? maybe talk to her on her own i private and tell her how you feel?? its up to you hun and i hope you work this out luv yooh x x x x good luk!
2007-02-04 05:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by <3 skittles <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang around with someone else n c how they like it!! once u find someone else to b buddies with, theyll either b jealous n wanna b mates again.....n if they do....tell em where to shove it.
or theyd laugh n take the piss out of u!! either way......u dont need ppl like that, move on hun, n get on with ur life.
ppl like to stab others in the back n by the sounds of things thats wats happening, so have fun n get ur own bk, enjoy
xx
2007-02-08 02:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by katluvsu4eva2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her abt this and even after this if she doesnt behaves well wid u then jus break ur friendship coz theres no need 4 a friend who doesnt understands ur precious friendship towards her
2007-02-04 05:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Aasma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a similar thing happened to me and by the end of it i discovered neither of them were good friends grin and bear it until some better friends come along
2007-02-04 05:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by chimpapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋