Ok, recently all my friends have turned on me, because I have a boyfriend, he's a little older than me, and they are being weird. They have all been talking about me, and I think they're jealous. Me and my bf aren't intimate or anything like that, we just talk/chat via email, and it's nothing life threatening. What should I do to make me feel better? They all just got mad and ditched me, and now I have like zero friends at school. There are no safety issues here, it's just like jealousy, I'm not brekaing up with my baby, so what should I do, please help.
2007-02-04 04:54:59 · 8 answers · asked by Chey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't ditch them 4 him, they all have their own times. My one so called best friend has been talking about me behind my back to my ex. I found out yesterday, my bf is a sweetheart, and everything he does is good, well to me at least, so it's not like he's abusive, and he told me he loved me the other night and they all acted werid after that too.
2007-02-04 05:22:16 · update #1
You call those friends? People have a problem with doing things to people that they would be upset about had it been done to them. Those aren't friends. Find new ones. Friends come and go. Love is forever.
2007-02-04 04:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from me - your friends may see something that you do not see right now. what you may see as jealousy - may actually be your friends trying to protect you from something. email thrm - talk to them - make them spell it out for you. what do they not like about him? what do they not like about you when you are with him? see what they have to say - and honestly respect their answers. then and only then - do you have to decide what to do. you cant do things for them - or for your boyfriend - only for yourself. just hold onto the truth - a true friend is around forever that is not always the case with a boyfriend.
2007-02-04 13:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find some new friends, friends that can be there for no matter what. you're right your other friends are jealous, if you want to keep them, maybe you can limit your time with you boyfriend.
2007-02-04 13:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is such a shame and so uncalled for. i think that you should try to find and get some better friends. ones that won't just ditch you because they are jealous of you.
2007-02-04 12:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by CHI U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been frequently blowing off your friends in order to spend time with your bf? If not, do your friends think you are?
2007-02-04 12:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by cyclotrode 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those 'friends' of yours arent your real friends then. i mean my friends NEVER got mad @ me cause i was dating. what kind of freinds talk about you like that? find new friends and move on.
they should be happy for you
mucho love, michaela cota
2007-02-04 13:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Muh-Kay-Luh cArTeR :]] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those aren't you're real friends. Real friends stay with you no matter what.
2007-02-04 13:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Evelyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see first of all relax and cool down and give ur friends also sometime to cool off maybe a day or a week then go to them and ask them wat is the reason 4 their wierd behaviour
2007-02-04 13:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by Aasma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋