why do women pick bad men?

Question

my sister married a drug dealer , my mom married a drunk , so many women end up with deadbeat men who shrink their responcibities as hunsbands and fathers yet women seem to be attracted to them ..... why?

Answer 1

Same reason why men pick bitchy women.

All women are different... as not all women go for bad men. (

But women in general want a man who is strong and a provider
( this can turn out to be a controlling man) while men will go for a beautiful woman ( who in turn, is suerficial and a *****)

Answer 2

A lot of women find bad men exciting. Sometimes, a good man might seem boring or otherwise not very interesting. Also, some women see bad men as projects that they can rehabilitate.

Bad men tend to be charming and smooth, which a lot of women mistakenly fall for. Also, I think a woman's choice of a man is directly linked with her sense of self esteem. The higher a woman's self esteem is, the less likely that she will fall for the bs a bad man will usually throw at her.

Answer 3

Women have a tendency to nurture. These women think they can change a man's bad behavior. Instead, they end up in emotionally abusive relationships that lower their self esteem. They end up feeling like they have no way out and their lives suffer because of this.

Answer 4

The woman has low self-esteem. She thinks that is the best she can do and settles for less instead of striving for the best.

Answer 5

maybe the same reason men pick evil women.

My uncle's wife of 12 years is such an evil b*tch! even after 12 years of marriage, she treats him and the kids (also her kids) like dirt.

Answer 6

some women say it is because good men dont beat them up enough , i just say that my mom didnt raise me that way , and if they want someone badder , dont come crawling back when he wont stop beatin on u

Answer 7

That's so true. It's one of the strangest phenomenons of them all, really.

Answer 8

I think it is a matter of social class!