2007-02-04 04:17:32 · 18 answers · asked by kittana! 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Naw, it's overrated. When you are young, it doesn't last. As soon as the guy gets what he wants, he starts drifting away to fall in love with someone else.
The best way to keep a guy interested in you is to not have sex with him. If he loves you, he will respect that. If he doesn't, he'll go after other game.
You can find your life mate before you leave high school, but it's really rare and the best marriages are between a girl (18-19 years old) and a guy who is 25 or more. That way the guy is settled in his career and there is income. Those guys in high school have nothing. Puppies.
2007-02-04 04:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by loryntoo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darlin ya ain't gonna like my answer. Not until you are much older.
You make it sound as if this is an option, falling in love. Believe me, when the right person comes along, you will know what it really means. Until then, it is all just playtime and means little more than heartbreak due to emotions that can get very tangled.
Best to be friends ... that lasts longer than love and friends often evolve into loves if handled properly by both parties.
"Falling in love" is much over rated in our society. In many countries such a concept is laughed at. Often love comes with getting to know someone over time as well.
Concentrate on your studies. More grades are lost by girls who are obsessed by boys and "puppy love" than almost any other thing. When you are done your schooling, go for it.
However, hold on to your biggest bargaining chip... your hymen. Do not give it away cheaply to some guy intent on busting cherries or keeping count. Value yourself and let it show in how you protect what is yours... your body.
If I had a dime for every broken heart my daughters and their friends had over boys while they were in school I would not be sitting here writing, I would be living rich somewhere in an exotic country!
2007-02-04 13:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love isn't something you make yourself do, when you meet the right, or perfect guy, you will just automatically fall in love, well maybe you'll need to find out about him first, but you have to just wait till the time is right, and there's the right guy to fall in love with
2007-02-04 12:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go fall head over heels in fact.
But don't fall in love for the wrong reasons
goodluck
cheers
2007-02-04 12:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by H Vice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me, no. Its really not worth it if you think about it. Unless your 18, 19 years old and you plan on marrying them. Don't be like me and fall in love when your 16. Im 17 now and still love that one guy but we broke up. Even though we are like best friends now, we wont get back together.
2007-02-04 12:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by luv2dance 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course, you should fall in love. You cannot force yourself not to fall in love. It is normal and it is part of being a human being. Just be responsible of your actions
2007-02-04 16:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Golden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no true love until after you're an adult. Everything before that isn't even puppy love, it's just something to pass the time.
Like the other person said, if you give your body away to sex, you're worth a lot less and will have time finding someone who'll care enough about you to learn about love.
2007-02-04 12:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by biggestperlnerd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily. Love is not identically equal to happiness, joy, bliss, fulfillment, self-actualization, or any number of other good things that we often associate with it.
2007-02-04 13:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by night_train_to_memphis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control who you fall in love with..it just happens...
2007-02-04 12:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Racin Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there's a lot more to love than just kissy faces and sex. Fall in like!
Krazy Libra
2007-02-04 12:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋