2007-02-04 04:03:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why do you ask? What makes you think your husband might be homosexual? I think if you are asking yourself if you husband is homosexual then the answer is probably:
1) yes, he is homosexual or bisexual and you need to see a marriage counselor.
2) no, he is heterosexual and you need to see a marriage counselor.
2007-02-04 04:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only sure fire way to find out is to ask him, outright.
Remember too that men can also be bisexual - lots of straight women seem to label a man homosexual when he is actually bisexual.
Other suggestions:
(1) Who are his closest group of male friends? Does he seem to have male friends that you know nothing about or have never met?
(2) Does he seem to disappear at times and you wonder where he is? Is there something related to this sort of thing that makes you think he has been with a man rather than a woman?
(3) Have you ever found gay male pornography in the house? Or gay web sites on his computer history? Does he go into the personals?
(4) Have you ever caught him subconsciously checking out a man?
(5) Do you have any evidence that he has ever frequented gay bars, adult bookstores, or other places where gay or bi men may hang out?
But like I said first, the only true way to find out is to ask him.
I hope everything works out for the both of you. Good luck.
2007-02-04 04:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where are all the sensible people today?
The only way you can tell is if you ask him. Keep in mind that most people have some bisexual tendencies. It's a continuum, some people are all one or the other, some people are quite in the middle, and many people have an inclination one way or the other. Those folk can have an interest but not want to act on it. Maybe that describes your husband.
2007-02-04 04:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you caught him having oral sex with another man? Have you seen him engaged in anal sex with another man? Does he like gladiator movies? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may have a homosexual husband.
2007-02-04 04:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by MaryCheneysAccessory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him but be prepared for an answer you may not like.
Would you feel better if he was sleeping with another woman?
Ask yourself, 'Am I watching what I look like'. As men we are very visual, we will still sleep with anything but if its not good looking it is easy to skip it.
2007-02-04 04:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by NYCTRI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think before going to his anal area..why you do not ask him first..? tell him to be honest with you..and analize why you think he is gay? how come you did not noticed that? tell him he cn be honest with you..and if he doesnt want to admit it,, then hire a detective and face him with facts...
2007-02-04 04:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can i say to the first two answers. You tell me!
2007-02-04 04:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he avoids touchin or havin love with u ..then ohhhhh sorry 2 inform u that hes HOMO ...good luck dear
2007-02-07 20:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to go to a broadway show....if he says yes....Call me.
2007-02-04 04:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by BudLt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS WHAT U DO....YOU BUY A NEW DILDO THEN MAKE HIM KNOW YOU DID...AND SPRAY LIKE A CERTIN KINDA SCENT ON THE DILDO THEN PUT THE DILDO AWAY AND HIDE THE SCENT OR FRAGRANCE SO LATER ON WHEN U NOTICE THE DIDLO SMELLS LIKE SOME KINDA LUBE ORR IT SMELLS LIKE ITS BEEN CLEANED THEN THATS A DEAD GIVE AWAY THAT YOUR MAN IS GAY!
2007-02-04 04:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by florida boy 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋