I have a boyfriend since almost 2 years. Everything is fine between us, but i'm not in love. I'm 19 and I feel like I have enough time to have a comfortable relationship later in my life, now I'm longing for love...for someting more exciting. I have a boy who I really like, and who likes me too, and we could probably have a really special relationship, the one I dream of...but he's far away from me, in a different country. I don't know what to do. Stay with my bf, which is the comfortable choice, since his family and friends are awesome, and my family likes him too, or leave him because this relationship is not satisfying me any more...? Should I break up or not, even if I really can't get the other guy (which I know and i'm okay with)?
2007-02-04 03:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by Hellomynameis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I forgot to tell that my bf is in love with me and he knows that I'm not in love with him any more, and he also knows that I like the other guy...But he still tries to work on the relationship and acts like everything was okay.
2007-02-04 05:02:17 · update #1
break up w/ ur bf u dont luv so dnt tag him along
forget about the other guy he's far
i think u can use this time to see what u really want in life plus ur still young u got plenty of time
2007-02-04 04:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by axlrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur not in love with him and your just trying to satisfy ur parents then u need to leave him if ur not happy than u dont need to stay in this relationship ! Go find the guy of ur dreams ok even if hes in another country go for it!!!!
2007-02-04 12:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason why you should make yourself miserable. Ask yourself how you really feel about the guy you are with and weigh the options of being with or without him. Follow your heart it will lead in the right direction. Good Luck!!
2007-02-04 12:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly u need to break up with your boyfriend cuz it's not fair to him to keep him thinking that everything is great between you and him you need to break up with him and find what your looking for. good luck try not to break his heart
2007-02-04 12:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your not happy go break up with him but maybe you need to get your space and think this through because what if you end up breaking up with him then relize you want him back right?
2007-02-04 12:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just find another guy that lives around you thne break up with your boyfriend
2007-02-04 12:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, only fools rush in. Patience will help you decide.
2007-02-04 12:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do wat is comfortable for u and for ur whole life as well as for ur family.
2007-02-04 12:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by jaspreet k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋