we have been married since 7 years and no kids.. i feel too alone i m feeling he is paying no attention to me what to do?
2007-02-04 03:57:08 · 32 answers · asked by sara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want to stay with someone who proclaims they love you but abuses you? I would pack my bags and leave him, you don't have any "baggage" and obviously with him disrespting you by "beating you" he is not worth your love.
I would charge him but better yet, maybe he should be confronted by someone bigger and be beaten, see how he feels like the abuse!!
He sounds a total control freak !!
Run away before he causes you more harm.
2007-02-04 04:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Porshe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if you have any idea the impact of this question.
He will have all the time in the world if 1. He ends up killing
you. 2. You leave him.
I just cannot understand a person that can stay with another,
especially when there are no children. I cannot understand either that you want to spend time with a bully. Poor him, he is busy.
Well I would be busy too. Sorting out arrangements to leave
him to start a new life. Good Luck - You need it.
2007-02-04 04:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open the front of the yellow pages and look up the assaulted womens help line and go for couseling. He sounds like he needs to go to anger management program. Unless there is a way you can have a calm conversation about why he is so angry all the time. You deserve to be treated properly, beating you up is against the law. He could go to jail .Take care Heather
2007-02-04 04:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband beat you up??? And you're still there? Of course you feel alone. You're living with the enemy. Marriage isn't supposed to be lonely or scary or painful. Get away from him; get a divorce. The first time a man hits you it's over. Done! Get out!
2007-02-04 04:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a bad situation that will only get a whole lot worse.
If your husband is laying his hands on you in an abusive way, you need to pack your things and leave now!! From experience, my uncle did this constantly to my aunt, and they were H.S. Sweethearts. She wanted to get a job, and he feared that she would find someone who would treat her better. He eventually killed her, then turned the gun on himself, killing himself. They left behind 2 children, and he left behind 8 more. All because of his jealousy. Be happy that you didn't have children in this enviroment. Could you see yourself protecting your kids from him? I don't think so.
You need to go, before you wind up in the obituaries. If he loved you, he would NEVER put his hands on you like that. You don't deserve to be beaten up, NO WOMAN DESERVES THAT.
2007-02-04 04:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason for a man to hit a woman (or vice versa)...It's very unacceptable behavior.
You need to leave him
He cannot and will not change until he seeks professional help. No matter how many times he says he's going to change..dont believe it.
You cant force someone to spend time with you..and if you could, would you really want to knowing that you had to force them too?
2007-02-04 04:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your situation and I wish you the best of luck. Physical abuse is unacceptable at any level. I praise you for admitting this. While you still have your sanity, get out while you can, there is a person asking for help, even on the internet, and that is you. God bless you and good luck.
2007-02-04 04:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's he doing with all his time??? Planning how which lethal hit to use to kill you? You're his WIFE NOT HIS PUNCHING BAG!! Girl, have some self respect and leave his abusive (_o_) !!!!! Do yourself a favor and find someone who'll give you the time and respect you deserve. I'm hoping you'll make the right decision. Good Luck...
2007-02-04 04:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by K9Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen the movie sleeping with the enemy or the movie the story of tracey thurman? Men who beat their wives will say how sorry they are for what they did blah blah blah it's all lies and this is just the beginning. He IS going to do it again and again if he did it once don't let him win. I would leave him and if you need to do it secretly.
2007-02-04 05:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still there..?????...He beat you today...wake up and leave before it gets worst!!! There is no excuse for him to lay a hand on you!!!!!! Leave before it goes any further...you have no kids with him ...so no reason to stay. I know you love him ..but he dose not love you if he is willing to beat you for asking for more attention!!!! I have been there before.....I took it for 6 months, every day it got worst....more beatings and controling everything in my life. My family help me to relize what was going on and how it would end up for me. Please I beg you too leave, it starts with one hit ..then he said's he is sorry ...but they always do it again !!!! Trust me , I have been there....PLEASE LEAVE!!!!
2007-02-04 04:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by oceanwave20032001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋