PLEASE give me tips . the best way to do tht
2007-02-04 03:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
first of all, i wouldn't do that unless you are willing to lose her friendship and withstand ridicule. although is it possible she might reciprocate your feelings, are you ready to deal with the fact that she may not? that's a big risk. how old are you?
2007-02-04 03:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found from personal experience that writing things down and giving it to the person is a bad thing to do! If you feel like you want to tell her then tell her face to face. If you are filled with emotions then you can write a letter just to get it all out in the open but it is for your eyes ONLY. You can burnt he letter or shred the letter. It will be a great release to get it out. You may think differently if you write it down and read it.
2007-02-04 03:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ron M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A letter? Why a letter. Just sit down with her in person and tell her that you are gay....give her some time to react to that and tell her that she is your type....give her some time to absorb that. A letter? Are you like 8 years old? Tell her in person cupcake....thats not a letter thing.
2007-02-04 03:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by BudLt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want to keep her as a friend then dont do that, unless she is extremly open about sexuality, just be honest and blunt though, dont beat around the bush and avoid the point of the letter just get straight to the point.
2007-02-04 03:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Calebs Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only tell her if you're sure she feels the same about you, and tell it to her face, not in a letter. if you give yourself time, the truth will eventually come out on it's own...good luck to you!
2007-02-04 03:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by xXLadyBladeXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y? if u love her how cud u be homo? no dont tell her..y did u love her from the very first beginning? thats gona shock her
2007-02-07 20:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you should do it. You could shock and alienate her. If you value the friendship and don't think she loves you in that same way, I would not tell her.
2007-02-04 03:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by isabel_ro1981 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be compltely honest with her and tell her that if she dosnt want u to like her that u wont try anything with her just so she knows that u dont want to push her into anything she dosnt want to do and tell her that if she not comfortable that you wont try anything with her and that u really care about her and stuff like that
but honestly i wouldnt do it in a letter i would tell it to her to her face but thats just me you can do it however u would like to but i would highly suggest to tell her to her face not in a letter
hope this helps u! :-)
2007-02-04 03:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man so not good, if you can't talk face to face, you're not worth it.
i don't believe in same sex relationships but in ANY relationship, a letter does not do it right.
2007-02-04 03:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by blueJean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER put that in writing! Unless you don't mind it being shown to everyone on the planet.
2007-02-04 03:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋