ithink ilove this other woman too my wife found out about this other woman but i dont know any more which one i want
2007-02-04 02:53:49 · 25 answers · asked by rafik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please dont do this to the woman you married. You are only infactuated with this internet person. You dont really know her atall. You know the story..." if you want to know me, come and live with me".
You are going to break the heart of youre wife. This is the lowest of the low mate. Its time to realise what you have right now in your life. Dont wreck your wifes life and trust in all men. The internet ISNT real dude. You have to realise that.
2007-02-04 02:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married your wife you are suppose to be faithful to her. You do not know this woman that you just met on the Internet. People can write things down so much better then they can say it in real life. I was watching this show last night where this woman fell in love with this man over the Internet. She had never seen him or seen a photo but she was in love with him. Come to find out this man she was talking to was not a man it was a woman. You might think that your life will be so different if you choose the lady on the Internet but usually the grass is dry and brittle and you made a mistake. Try to work out your marriage start going to marriage counseling.
2007-02-04 06:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you didn't take those marriage vows seriously? There are some KEY words here that you failed to grasp..."'til death do us part" Nowhere in my vows did it say, "until you cruise someone hotter on the net"...If you have kids, buck up, go to counseling and by all means stick with your wife IF she will still have you. Kidless? Set her free and give her the chance to meet some REALLY GREAT guy and live happily ever after...your other woman has already proven she's capable of cheating with a married man...Now that's a catch! Be careful if you choose her-you may "catch" more than you bargained for the next time she finds a (richer, smarter, funnier) married man...
2007-02-04 03:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you really loved your wife in the first place you would not even be wanting to be with this other women... You need to dump the other woman and work on your marriage with your wife and if you cant then you need to let your poor wife go so that she can find a man who will love and cherish her the way she deserves... You seem selfish and self centered. You know what is right to do so do it!
2007-02-04 03:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is hard.
For your wife and for you.
:-(
For your wife because you are even considering that you have a choice! Like some of the others have pointed out- you are a married man and you CLAIM to love your wife.
For you because you are torn and subject to this new thing called virtuality and its impact on our society.
My husband's reaction? He was quite rude about it and said you ought to remember your wedding vows.
My take? I understand the attraction possible online. I was a tester for The Sims Online and "met" a number of men and women who had been left by their partners by their "virtual" friends they claimed to be attracted to.
I think SHE is the one who ought to choose. Choose to perhaps not have you in her life if you cannot see that she is the REAL one and that the other one is a virtual "I think she might be great" perfect woman. It is ALL in your MIND. Virtuality is what WE make of it.
I know it sounds harsh but hey- you asked!
If you do not know what you want from life, and you do not have committments such as a duty to children I'd say- take a month out and leave home. Meet this other woman and find out if she is someone you could REALLY love.
Then make your choice.
BUT be prepared to lose everything; because if I were your wife? I would have changed the locks because THAT would break my heart.
I wish your wife and you the very best of luck.
2007-02-04 02:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you choose the internet woman, you will likely have to go through a divorce. Is she worth it? Have you even ever met her in person? Do you have children with your wife? Can your wife forgive you, or maybe you should go through marriage counselling?
The easiest thing to do is give up the internet woman and try to patch things up with your wife. This is also what's most acceptable to all of society.
Good luck.
2007-02-04 03:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by zandyandi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with your wife? What are the reasons you married her? What are the reasons you are still with her? These are just some of the questions you should ask yourself because you married her for a reason and you know you love her or you would not be questioning your thoughts. So stay friends with the net people and stay with the one you know and love and stop hurting her and yourself.
2007-02-04 02:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by spunkie_6969 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've Been married b4 and Found that my wife was cheating on me. It was devastating to say the least! My question is why in Gods name would you do something like that????If you were so unhappy with your wife, you should have talked to her first, If that didn't work, then split. Don't cheat you COWARD!!
2007-02-04 03:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your not happily married and 100 percent commited to your wife. If you were you never would have wondered away. Your wife was first. She deserves your love not the online female. Its up to you though. Dont let someone take her place if she makes you happy. You will regret it.
2007-02-04 02:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by WillsBroncoGal 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you made a comintment with your wife when you two got married. And this "girl" you're talking to over the internet, may actually be a guy. You never know over the internet. Your wife should leave you. You sicken me.
2007-02-04 03:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by seasons.change.but.people.dont 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋