Question Details: My girlfriend she said she would have a threesome, if I would have gay sex with a dude, while she watched. I was reluctant, but went along, and it was disgusting! I ended up crying, and my girlfriend lost respect for me and won't retun my calls.
2007-02-04 02:48:15 · 4 answers · asked by Bill A 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well...she lost respect for you???!! It was her stupid idea in the first place!! She lost respect for you because you cried? She sounds like an immature b...i...t...c...h!!! You shouldn't feel bad! The only thing you did wrong was listen to her!! You should just say, "Good Riddens!!"
2007-02-04 14:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you do this, it was obviously something you didn't want to do, and life is like that, if you don't want to do something then there is a very strong likely hood that you won't enjoy it, and or it is th wrong thing to do. What about you, now you have a memory that most of us never even have to contemplate, that being essentially emasculated in front of a girl you have feelings for. I think if I were you I would wrote her a note, and be open about how you felt, while at the same time admitting you were doing something you didn't want just because she asked, and you wanted to have a different type of experience with her. perhaps she is thinking the 3 some would have meant gay sex for her and that is why it hits home so hard, when she sees you are not enjoying yourself. I suspect that she also feels very guilty for asking you in the first place! Good luck, but be prepared to move on...
2007-02-04 10:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious, you have lost her permanently. I can't understand why anyone would do such a thing, and you probably could use some therapy. Never think that sex can be traded, and that is why your girlfriend lost respect, not because you had gay sex.
2007-02-04 02:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Pls no name 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry dude, but when she probably saw you and, to me seeing guys having sex just disgusts me and makes me think less of them. and she is having a hard time with this.
2007-02-04 08:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋