im lesbian and im 13 and i know that ur gonna say im too young to know for sure that im lesbian but hold those answers back cuz i know ok just trust me! but back to the question... im lesbian and im 13 and i like a girl in my class and she might be bi or lesbian but even if she is she wont admit it cuz shes a "popular" and she is too worried about her rep and all the other populars are homophobics... so she cant saying anything about it if she is... and i have alot of pimples and zits and i think that if i can clear them up 1. everyone will stop making fun of me cuz of my pimples. 2. more people in school will like me. 3. she might like me. so dose anyone know any ways i can 1. find out if shes bi. 2. clear up my pimples. 3. impress her. anything at all im basicly desprate!
2007-02-04 02:48:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im not trying to make her admit shes a lesbian i care about her and i wouldnt want to hurt her and i wouldnt force her to do something she isnt ready to do
2007-02-04 02:58:18 · update #1
First, calm down. It's okay to be a lesbian and since you've most likely past the start of puberty, you would know if you are or not by now.
Go search "acne control" for help on cheap and easy ways to control it. On wanting to know if the girl is also gay, you might want to give that some time. With today's homophobics still around, you'd be open yourself up to ridicule if not. Maybe keep any relationships online for a bit until you get more confidence in yourself just the way you are.
2007-02-04 02:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First - you can not really know if someone is bi. If you have the financial means to purchase the currently recommended facial treatment for the pimples, stay away from anything that is fried(food). You have to have certain amount of confidence to attract other ppl. At your age, this seems to be difficult. If you hang out with this person, you could always look through magazines and ask if she thinks girls are pretty and if the guys are attractive. I will say that if you act with confidence she would be more likely to confide in you any of her secrets.
2007-02-04 03:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ron M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can get your sposts done by buying some clearacil, if that doesnt work, then it is perhaps a hormaon inbalance, in which case you need to go to the doctor if they are really bad, it may also explain how eccentric you sound in this. and dont go round trying to get her to admit she is a lesbian, although you may be sure, it is still way too early for most people, only make a move on her if you are sure some other way, or if you know she likes you
2007-02-04 02:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Toujours 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look sweetie, you know that you are young, inexperienced, etc. But you also seem very positive about your sexual orientation as a lesbian.
You must understand that it is hard to give advise to someone your age about these types of issues, especially in an open forum. The right place to contact for answers to your question is the JOYFUL HEART FOUNDATION:
http://www.joyfulheartfoundation.org
http://www.joyfulheartfoundation.org/resources.html
They will help you find the right people to address all your questions, since they specialize in helping with preteen/teen sexual related issues, (Lesbianism, Homosexuality, Bisexuality, Sexual Assault Victims, etc).
If you can't find the help you need through them, let me know so I can call them directly and ask them to help us find someone who can help you directly.
2007-02-04 03:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ya so!! If he develop into grew to develop into off through it, he may have only disregarded you and under no circumstances teased you about it. tell him, he'd be an fool no longer to understand you've been crushing on him, and your only sorry it took you writing a note to figure it out. yet you gotta say it with a grin and somewhat horny body of recommendations. do not act weird and wonderful or diffrent....trust me, he teased you about it, that is superb. Now flow ask him what he's gonna do about it, or, I favor the formidable technique, and only provide him a huge ole kiss and get it over with...sturdy luck
2016-11-25 00:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wash your face twice a day and try to use make up as little as possible. If you still have problems, see a doctor about more extreme measures. You could always flirt with her and see if she flirts back too. Good luck!
2007-02-04 11:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your skin might clear up eventually, pimples are common when kids go through puberty. You are 13 school should be your top priority. Period.
2007-02-04 02:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sui Generis 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
could i ask why u r lesbian please?
2007-02-04 04:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋