My sister and I are very close, and she won't get offended or tell me to mind by own bussiness if I tell her about her baby. She also wants to know how to stop her baby from being so violent.
2007-02-04 02:39:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
No, but he also kicks me and his mother.
2007-02-04 02:45:14 · update #1
BIG scary people are invading his space. Kicking and screaming are his only means of defense.
Talk softly when approaching him. Try to determine his 'comfort zone', and grant him that room whenever possible. Make sure your touches are gentle, and do not restrict his movements. He has to learn that being close feels good.
Another approach may be to swaddle him in a soft blanket. This may help him feel more secure, as well as prevent him from kicking. Hold him gently, but firmly. Over time he will realize the he can feel safe when in close proximity of the giants of his world.
On the next visit to the pediatrician his mother should talk with the doctor about this behavior. They may be able to shed some light on this kicking and screaming, and suggest other things to try to change this behavior..
2007-02-04 03:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by sandyblondegirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, my 5 month old has no idea that she is actually pinching you, grabbing you, I mean she knows but she has no idea that it hurts, or that what she is doing is not nice. I can't imagine a 4 month old deliberatly kicking someone in the face. He obviously is getting upset and just starts moving his legs, and bam it hits your face. Sounds like he is scared about something, and doesn't want people near him. Maybe he is near strangers to much and this is how he is playing shy. I don't think he is being violent on purpose, to young for that. Try talking to him first before getting in his face, let him know your approaching him. Good Luck
2007-02-04 02:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Proud Mother 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol the baby is not violent and he doesn't mean to kick anyone in the face ,...its just a reflex like when hes hand touch anything it holds it...when his leg touches anything including faces he'll kick and this reflex helps with the walking a bit later...and screaming is communicating just like crying and the rest of the sounds he makes...most probably hes a happy active baby...just let him be and when he reaches a yr of age he'll be aware of his actions..but now just enjoy the pre-walking time
2007-02-04 02:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Ozza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just needs more love and attention. Children also are products of their environment....if he is around violent and aggressive people he also will act as such.
You also need to set limits with them, if he displays inappropriate behavior kindly but firmly tell him no an redirect the behavior.
2007-02-04 02:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by zaeli22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's 4 months old and not interested in being around anyone other than Mommy (or those he's closest with). Tell her she shouldn't try to force him to be around people if he's not comfortable. I almost guarantee once she does this, the outbursts of fear will stop.
2007-02-04 02:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by RitzFitz29 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd consult a doctor, I've never heard of a four month old behaving like this. It could be the stranger fear he's getting to the age of separation anxiety...
2007-02-04 02:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my baby is 4 months and she doesnt do dat but she knows how to fight she dont be kicking me or screaming in people face
2007-02-04 02:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by ~L3_L3~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the baby is unaware of waht he is doin, my soon 4 months daughter kicks but its normal.
he probably just dont like you
lol
2007-02-04 02:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he kicks, hold his legs gently and give him a very firm "that is not nice" or "stop". He will eventually learn. Make sure he is not in pain (earaches, tummyaches...) - that could make him scream.
2007-02-04 03:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by strongblackcoffee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋