A couple of days ago i went out with a guy mate, we were drinking and ended up kissing. he does have a girlfriend and i did feel bad, but now we always kiss each other but neither of us want to be in a relationship. is this wrong?
2007-02-04 02:32:43 · 13 answers · asked by billie.is 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well...
2007-02-04 02:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there might be some type of attraction between you two. But since he is in a relationship at the moment, yes, it is wrong. But if he ever gets out of that relationship, then it won't be.
Just a side note. If his girlfriend ever catches you two kissing each other, just say you are Jewish. I think that in their culture that kissing (on the lips) a custom greeting, even in families. Like how hugging and shaking hands is here in America.
2007-02-04 14:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go lower back 20 or extra years, and that i keep in recommendations kissing my hand! via the years I had some boyfriends that I kissed, and were given extremely sturdy at it. through the time Mr. properly got here alongside (my better 1/2), he couldn't kiss in any respect!!! right here i'm years later, and he nevertheless can't kiss. This sucks a lot for me because I loved to do it interior the previous. Oops sorry, the answer for your question is attempt no longer to kiss your chum. it would want to steer on to emotional involvement.
2016-11-25 00:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I myself call this a friend with benefits, however it IS wrong that he and you continued this while he has a girlfriend, hugs are okay between you two but by kissing him you are ruining his and her relationship.
You need to make this fact clear with yourself and your friend.
However if him and his girlfriend break up feel free to kiss the face off each other :)
(although be happy for him now that your friend has found someone special that he loves.)
2007-02-04 02:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll both be OK. His girlfriend probably wont like it very much when she finds out but who knows? Maybe she's open to that sort of thing. The possibilities are as varied as the weather to be frank about it. The rule of thumb is though, if it makes you feel guilty then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
2007-02-04 02:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong. How would you feel if you were her and you found out. Personally I would want to kick your as*. If you have any respect for him, her and yourself then you will put a stop to it. You say you don't want a relationship so you're going to ruin his instead? You don't sound like a good friend.
2007-02-04 02:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, once you start kissing, you are moving from friend to more than friend. (Some people like term friends with benfits.)
I think if yu a are hiding it from his gf there is something wrong
Personally i think friends with benefits is bad idea. Usually eventuallty someone wants more.
2007-02-04 03:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew it wasn't kosher or you wouldn't be asking if it's wrong. Do you want your next question to be, "I knew he had a girlfriend when I met him, now how am I going to tell him I'am expecting???"
2007-02-04 02:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure neither of you want to be in a relationship???
2007-02-04 02:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you kiss him infront of his girlfriend? how do you think she would feel about it? doesn't it bother you that he's unfaithfull to his girlfriend? I personally wouldn't respect a person who did that. Maybe she's not REALLY his girlfriend, in which case, kiss on.
2007-02-04 02:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by Hans B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both want to be in a relationship weather you want to believe it or not.
2007-02-04 02:42:29 · answer #11 · answered by roost2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋