Theres this girl that I met out one night about a month ago. We talked and I could tell she was flirting with me and we even ended up kissing that night. I got her number and called her and we talked briefly. I ended up calling her a few days later and she never answered or returned my phone call. 2 weeks passes by without a single word spoken between the 2 of us. I then have flowers delivered to her work for her birthday and I finaly get a phone call from her. A few days later we go out for some dinner and drinks after and both have a great time. We were flirting allot with eachother and had a very nice long kiss at the end of the night. I called her a couple days later and we talked very briefly again and then didnt speak again untill I called her a week later. When I called her on Friday night, I asked her if she wanted to go to the LIghtning game and she said yes and she stood me up.
Should I just move on and forget about her or is she playing some kind of game with me
2007-02-04 02:30:33 · 14 answers · asked by Acknutz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move on.....she's obviously not all that interested.....you sound like a great guy, and one that ANY woman would love to have....flowers, dinner, drinks, kisses......all without pressuring her to have sex. Don't waste your time with her.
2007-02-04 02:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, women aren't confusing at all. Just listen to them, and you'll understand them. Secondly, You should without a doubt, move on.
It's possible she may be with someone else, or just simply playing the field and looking over her options. Don't bet all of your chips on someone who's just talking briefly, talks again in about a week or 2, flirt, etc. To me, it's a wasted effort. I can tell you are a good guy with a good heart. Find someone else for your own well being who will appreciate the efforts you put forth. The right young lady will come through, and you will sweep each other off your feet.
Best of Luck to you!!
2007-02-04 10:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your new to dating
one you NEVER call the girl
you let her call you
2 you spend as less money as you can on her
20 bucks per date maximum 3 dates
after all if you are guy in demand women chase you
if you shower her with flowers and what not she knows your a weak guy and not the guy she wants to be with
basically she is doing what you should be doing in reverse
a guy in demand is busy and really has no time for women like her
thus you never call them, let her call you , calls you and you do it late at night you return her call a few days after she, and you never go out on a friday, saturday or sunday, those nights are reserved for you and the ral hot girls or the boys
you reserve a week day for that and only then late night
after all you should ideally have a full schedule and you basically let her know you'll try ot fit her in to your busy life style
this make her want you more as she realizes guys like you are hard to catch much less keep
2007-02-04 10:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like there's two options either she is playing you, she might just like being chased or you scared the crap out of her, you were very persistent for someone you just met, sending flowers even after she didn't return your call. Move on and maybe be a little slower next time
2007-02-04 10:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by sweetcavebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls sure can be confusing but so can men for that matter lol! I think she is just testing you for now and kinda playing hard to get to see if you will still pursue her or not. She just may be really busy with work and things too... Next time you talk with or see her just ask her how she feels and explain to her how you are feeling and be honest with her about things. See what she has to say and how she responds to you.
2007-02-04 10:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female also and I can't even figure out why we are so confusing...but to be honest with you to me it sounds like she is playing you. The only reason it seems to me that she went out with you the 2nd time is because you sent her flowers and she wanted to be nice. STAY AWAY and find someone that will like you for you and not for what you want to give her. Sorry to be so Harsh!!!
2007-02-04 10:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by spunkie_6969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has someone else. She can't answer the phone when that person's around. She calls you from her job. She stands you up without a call because she is busy with him...or her.
2007-02-04 10:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have moved on when she stopped answering your phone calls. Geez.
Don't believe that crap you see in romantic comedies: if a woman/girl wants you, and she is not suffering some sort of mental disorder, she'll help you, not throw up road-blocks.
2007-02-04 10:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you remember the old "60's" song called "Spooky"? I'd say she's out for a good time and has several "play-a's" of which you are only one of many....
2007-02-04 10:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by EvelynMine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. if any girl stands you up, that pretty mech means she does not want to be with you..... unless there is an emergency at that very minute in the family or something.
2007-02-04 10:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋