I feel that he is cheating with his ex who dumped him for another man when they broke up. What is he trying to prove?
2007-02-04 02:28:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is getting his cake and eating it to and you are allowing him to do this. Why waist your time on this loser when you can find someone who is going to be faithful and loving to you. You might want to see why you are willing to put up with this jerk.
2007-02-04 06:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say you "feel" he's cheating on you, do you know this for a fact? And if so, confront him, without being like a bull to a red flag, but, calmly tell him that if this is the case, it would be appreciated if he were a "man" in telling you directly to you and apologise, and no matter how hard it hurts, and he does admit to cheating, turn your back on him, don't say a word, and move out of his life. It will ultimately be the best thing you do, and show that you can move forward in your life, without him.
Goodluck and Peace
2007-02-04 10:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Porshe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel this, or you know this? He knows you love him so he's secure with you. She dumped him so there is a rejection there he can't get past so he has focused on trying to "win" the game. Tell him you can see why she dumped him for another man that you are ready to do the same thing. See if that gets his attention on you!
2007-02-04 10:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry, but you can't make him stop cheating on you. if he truly loves you he wouldn't cheat to begin with. maybe he's not totally over his ex. i don't think he's trying to prove anything other than he's totally confused, and doesn't know what he wants. so ask him, and if he doesn't give you a straight answer, or lies(and u can catch him at that) then it's time to give up on the relationship. sorry, but that's my opinion.
2007-02-04 10:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He will never change..Dump the jerk and find you a REAL man that will love you for you and want ONLY you!!! Trust me there are those kind of men out there. Dont sell yourself short you deserve so much more...
2007-02-04 10:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the girls are right
you have low self esteem
you enpower him to cheat by staying with him
you lack any backbone
you probaly forgive him
you think he is the best that i can do
while in his mind he laughs at what pathetic Gf he has that he can play behind her back and she'll still stay with him
you are showing desperation if you think he will become additiced to you
he will not
he loves to cheat becuase he is immature and for him it's a fun game he plays sneaking around
it's the tension he loves
2007-02-04 10:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's cheating on you, the only thing you can do is dump him. If you are giving your all in this relationship and it's not enough, then he is not worthy of being with you.
2007-02-04 12:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by simply_ch0c0late 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is really no way to get him to stop cheating on you no matter what you do or try to do... He is being selfish and does not really love you... You need to break it off with him and move on with your life and someday find someone who will really love you and NEVER cheat on your or be unfaithful.
2007-02-04 10:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u have to understand that u have no control over him, or what he does. he isn't trying to prove a thing, except maybe to boost his ego with himself, by getting his ex back because she hurt him. he is not over his ex, may never be, is probably trying to get her back, to prove to himself he can. just move on if your smart, make it easier on yourself and find someone who can com mitt to u, this guy has a little too much baggage involved.
2007-02-04 10:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Addicted to you? That doesn't sound healthy.
BTW, i'd steer clear of rebound relationships if I were you. I have some self-esteem, however, and I feel I deserve a healthy partner and have had my fill of unhealthy partners.
2007-02-04 10:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋