Hi, I am getting mary to a girl who is doctor by profession......and by her profession she might have seen 100s of nude bodies....v both are virgin....but when i talk her i feel that she feels my body also like a patients body hope u will understand me....i mean to say she dont feel much attraction in talking about my body and i want her to feel some thirst and love for my body as i feel for her.....i want her to appreciate and praise my body too as i do for her...but she always say i m just same as others nothing special......plz note that its kind of an arrange marriage so v r together for few months only.... I never seen any woman naked by the ways and so i wish her to have same interest and excitation for me as i hve for her hope u got my question....plz help..
2007-02-04 02:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear Awan,
In time things will change you have to remember she's a doctor and it's part of her professional makeup. In time when you are both married and you have sex it will get better and she will desire you. I would also like to tell you this is not uncommon with people who are virgins. Good luck to both of you and congratulations.
2007-02-04 02:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is an arranged marriage, do u really love her? She obviously does not love you, not if she says that u r like her patients. And this is America. Why do u have to follow through on an arranged marraige? Marraige is a lifetime commitment and a huge choice, why marry some you didn't choose? America is the land of choice, why b here if u can't choose waht you want?
2007-02-04 02:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by yo. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why you opt to marry that female? simply by fact she is a doctor. So expensive in case you opt to marry a doctor then you might desire to provide her area for Masters. 3 years are actually not a super deal. 2d reason is MDs earns lots extra then MBBS. so take a determination
2016-09-28 10:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 're still trying to get to know each other. Since it is an arranged marriage, she probably has more reasons to feel uncomfortable.
It seems that you don't know each other well enough; so it may not be what you think. She's just too shy or hasn't got used to you yet.
2007-02-04 02:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you said that this is an arranged marriage so maybe she just doesn't feel anything for you. maybe in time she'll start to love you. when you really love someone they are sexy to you no matter what they look like. i don't think it has anything to do with her being a doctor. i just think that since this is an arranged marriage that she needs time to get to know you and to fall in love. do everything that you can to show her how much you love her and maybe she will start to love you.
good luck.
2007-02-04 02:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by fungirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is an "arranged marriage", how can you expect her to get excited? It's just another Doctor's appointment to her. Give her time and romance her...she will come around (unless you are some big hairy fat guy)
2007-02-04 02:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is something that she deals with on a daily base.
She will need to find those special times that you share and if you love each other she will care for you and your body.
2007-02-04 02:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um... say u have an infection
then ask if she could check it
or did she already she you
by the way, you might want to work out before you do that
2007-02-04 02:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by salad sauce 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well she has interest and excitation...but she sees it in a different way...but be happy...virgin girls ..look at"it"...like ...well...somthing new...some of them are discusted and some are scared ...so be happy...she is kind of prepared 4 that...easy way to go:D
2007-02-04 02:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by rox_girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋