My ex partner & I have been living apart for almost a year now. We were trying to get back together, but are having a hard time of it because of her wanting to keep her ex in the picture. She is always calling the ex & seeing the ex whenever possible. The ex lives in Kansas. The ex even gives her money. She never tells me when she does this. She said because she doesn't like my reaction to it, but they are only friends and she loves me. Why does she have to have a relationship with her ex if I feel threathened by it. I don't know her ex & she makes it a point that we do not meet or talk to one another. This does not make since to me. I have never heard of anyone always calling their ex & making it a point to go see them whenever they go to Kansas, plus the ex gives her money. How do you work things out to get back together if this ex is always in the pictures. The ex even writes her letters & sends them to Texas. I don't even know what they say.
2007-02-04 02:20:16 · 4 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She's still hooking up with him.
2007-02-04 02:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to get back together and make a go of it, she needs to at least introduce you to this freind. If she's unwilling to do so, then I'd tell her that I can't pursue a relationship with someone who has another man in her life.
2007-02-04 12:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person isnt respecting your feelings. therefore I think if this person continues doing this in SECRET then they are not the person just for you.
Im sorry but if she really wanted to get back together she would make as much sacrifices as you do.
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2007-02-04 10:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack up and leave...this can only end badly.
2007-02-04 10:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by gibson_slayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋