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Question

I have been going crazy for the passed couple of weeks over this please help me.

I don't have regular periods and i had sex but it was protected but it was also my first time having sex. So would that prolong your period .

My period is not reular its been like that since i first got my period. I have been on birth control for a while. For a month i forgot to take it. I had sex but it was protected. I still haven't gotten my period yet. Can i be pregnant or could having sex for the first time mess my period up.

i also have been sick with bronchitis and have been stressed out because of friends and family and i have been lossing weight for no reason.

Answer 1

As a nurse I will tell you that having sex for the first time does not have any effect on your periods. However, being stressed out and sick can have effects on your menstrual cycle. My question is what type of birth control are you on? Most birth control will regulate your period except for some like Depo which will cause it to be irregular or absent. Have you talked with your healthcare professional as to why you are still irregular with your period? Maybe you need to switch to something different. As for pregnancy I can't say either way. With your irregular cycle, being stressed out and sick, and the fact that you had sex I can't say your pregnant or not. I would suggest taking a pregnancy test because of all the factors involved. If it turns out to be postitive than I would make an appointment with your physician to have him/her to a professional pregnancy test.

Answer 2

First of all, having sex for the very first time will NOT prolong your period... and if it was erratic from the start, then that's normal for you. There are lots of girls/women with irregular periods. However, if you missed a whole month, then there's a tiny, tiny chance you could have become pregnant, even WITH a condom. -- condoms are not 100% safe. There have been instances where girls have gotten pregnant even though protection was used. And a girl can get pregnant her very first time as well.
On the other hand, it COULD just be extreme stress that has stopped your cycle. Stress is a HUGE culprit, as is a severe exercise regime; perhaps even being ill has something to do with it. My advice to you is see a doctor.

For one thing, the unexplained weight loss should be checked out, and while you're there, tell the doctor about your lack of a period. It could be something as simple as your hormonal cycle being off track. Good luck.

Answer 3

Stress can keep you from getting your period, as can going OFF of birth control. You need to take a chill pill and get a pregnancy check every week or so until you have had your period.

Answer 4

Go to the store - a grocery store, walmart, any drug store, get a pregnancy test and do it. You can get pregnant the first time you have sex, being sick can throw off your periods, being irregular with birth control pills can too, being stressed out and wondering if you are pregnant can too. You need to find out ifyou're pregnant.

Answer 5

Buy a home pregnancy test . They are accurate and sensitive. You don't even need to have missed your period to get an accurate reading.

Answer 6

Well the only thing you have to do is stop stressing yourself out . take a trip to your GP have the test , and you´ll know . your making yourself more sick by being stressed out

Answer 7

time to come clean with a parent ....this is going to bother you until you get it off your chest...not sure about the period thang but I bet Mom does....and ept test would make things better

Answer 8

hi, it is very simple, buy urine test from any pharmacy and you will know for sure, also some symptoms are nausea in the morning and dizziness