Please help, this wouldnt post earlier?
Our relationship is rocky enough as it is and now..?
my fiance &I have been fighting like crazy about the way he treats me and about money. We've been having to pay his mother and sisters bills(phone,health insurance,misc) because his mom got sick and cant work.BTW-we cant afford to do this neither can anyone else. We've paid at least 1,000 a month since summer. Now his sister got fired from her job! Everyone is jobless. He talked to her yesterdy and he said "just send me your bills and I'll take care of em" with out even talking to me about it first.Now we have to give them more money a month. I am just in tears. They dont try or say thank u. I cant stop crying they are mooching and he doesnt see it. All my money goes to their lazy asses. I am going to look at my own place today and moving out. I want to give them a piece of my mind as well as him. How should I do it? what do i do? I cant contain myself.
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BTW- his sister is 3 years older than me and she still cant take care of herself.
the mother expects everyone to take care of her for no reason.
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2007-02-04 02:08:12 · 4 answers · asked by katie j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave him!!
2007-02-04 02:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when did it become his responsibly to take care of them?
They will do this for as long as he lets them, the next thing to come is they will be moving in with you.
He needs to get some back bone and tell them he is broke and can't help anymore.
Why should you and him be all stressed out paying their bills?
They can have things shut off like the phone, TV, Internet, they can also cut back on their food, like no cookies, pop, chips you know junk food stuff.
You 2 can help in other ways like helping them find a job maybe supper a couple time a week ect.. they will stand on their own, only if you 2 stop giving them money.
What is he going to do when you can't pay for your own things?
2007-02-04 02:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all mothers expect to be taken care of by there children and its true... if you love this guy your money shouldnt matter if not get out of there! maybe you should look in the paper and tell your fiances sister some ideas for a job.. your fianance seems like a nice guy to try and help the family.. you would do it too for your family id hope and family comes first
2007-02-04 02:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Unknown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not married run away from this situation now! He obviously can't stop being used and there is no reason you should be stuck with this. Get out while you can. E mailme if you need someone to talk to.
2007-02-04 06:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋