I and my liar girl has gotten into an interesting pattern. or should I say cycle. and this is how it goes
me; "did you do xyz?"
girl; "why are you asking me if I did xyz; are you asking me if i did xyz because you did xyz. if you did xyx just own up now. because this question doesn't make any sense."
( she will throw a tantrum, get all bent out of shape, and finally hit the roof)
me; "no I didn't do xyz. but I have a strong suspicion that you did xyz that's why I am asking. so.just answer yes or no to the question"
girl; She looks me straight into the eye "no I didn't do xyz" ( a lie)
me; "if you didn't do xyz, how come abc is showing that you did xyz?"
girl; Pause for a minute, think about it. storm out of the room.She starts thinking "mmmh how could he have known this; did he talk to somebody?, did he go through my stuff? did he tap my phone? did he break into my email? should I tell him the truth or should I keep lying unitl i am blue in the face?"
me; confused, infuriated, down in the the dumps with anger.
girl;go through her stuff , review her records, then 2 hours later " Yes I did XYZ , I am sorry I lied"
me; "but why did you do XYZ?"
girl ; "because of efgh" ( another lie)
So the cycle repeats itself again
2007-02-04 02:07:21 · 4 answers · asked by tof982003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd dump her so fast it would make her head spin. I'd just flat out kick her to the curb and say i don't like liars, won't date one, won't marry one.
Nobody should have to put up with a person who lies to them about anything. Honesty is the only way to go. Lying only destroys relationships.
2007-02-04 02:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let go of her honorably. If u haven't made too many commitments yet, just get out of it as soon as possible - UNLESS u have lots and lots of patience and if your aim is to help people like her get out of such compulsive habits.
Otherwise just let her go or else life will become a living hell.
'Don't however forget to pray for her and people like her - none of us is really born like that - sometimes situations and experiences in our early years form such habits. I am praying for her too - and for you too. Best of luck - u will certainly find someone closer to your level of integrity and values so dont fret.
2007-02-04 10:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by LIGHT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the merry-go-round ! Dumpty,dump,dump !! Don't need her for nothing !!!!...Live Life Stress-Free !!...Find YOU another lover & friend !
2007-02-04 11:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Aquarius/Purple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and get another one.
2007-02-04 10:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by cooperman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋