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I am my liar girl has gotten into an interesting pattern. or should I say cycle. and this is how it goes
me; "did you do xyz?"
girl; "why are you asking me if I did xyz; are you asking me if i did xyz because you did xyz. if you did xyx just own up now. because this question doesn't make any sense."
( she will throw a tantrum, get all bent out of shape, and finally hit the roof)
me; "no I didn't do xyz. but I have a strong suspicion that you did xyz that's why I am asking. so.just answer yes or no to the question"
girl; She looks me straight into the eye "no I didn't do xyz" ( a lie)
me; "if you didn't do xyz, how come abc is showing that you did xyz?"
girl; Pause for a minute, think about it. storm out of the room.She starts thinking "mmmh how could he have known this; did he talk to somebody?, did he go through my stuff? did he tap my phone? did he break into my email? should I tell him the truth or should I keep lying unitl i am blue in the face?"
me; confused, infuriated, down in the the dumps with anger.
girl;go through her stuff , review her records, then 2 hours later " Yes I did XYZ , I am sorry I lied"
me; "but why did you do XYZ?"
girl ; "because of efgh" ( another lie)
So the cycle repeats itself again

2007-02-04 01:59:43 · 3 answers · asked by tof982003 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

3 answers

I would find someone honest and not be with someone that was a liar, if they are doing it now they will continue to do it to a point in which you don't know when they are lying or being truthful and that is not a relationship, a relationship is based on trust and that is something that you would not be able to do..

2007-02-04 02:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0 0

You are making yourself crazy with this girl. If she lies to you continuosly and you know it, than the decsion is yours. Can you live with someone who constantly lies to you....I couldn;t.

2007-02-04 12:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0 0

I would ask her if she fooled around on the first date,if she said"NO" I would take her out.

2007-02-04 10:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Billy Butthead 7 · 0 0

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