i am a widower since 8 month, should i remarry or not
2007-02-04 01:46:18 · 16 answers · asked by for_everdear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't remarry just because you're lonely but if you find and fall in love with someone who can be your best friend and you are committed to a lasting relationship, then, yes, get remarried.
2007-02-04 01:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by zenacat37 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I married a widower. I see no reason whatsover why someone should not marry after the death of a spouse--not immediately, certainly, give a year or so at least--but I have never understood why a child or anyone else would deny their parent happiness and companionship in their older years. I was lucky enough (on both sides of the family--his and mine--) to have loving support and encouragement. Even his former in-laws welcomed me--and still do--to the family, and we are still both invited to their gatherings. I know that this isn't always the case. I also know that there are unscrupulous people who seek out widows and widowers to marry for the wrong reasons. But by and large, I think the decision to remarry should be with the person doing the marrying, not with others who want to interfere for their own reasons or interests, or suspicions. I think there should be family support, instead of interference.
2016-05-24 03:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may surely remarry if you really want to. There is no legal hurdle. Your sons are grown up too. Of course some people will sneer. But you can brush it off. And 47 isn't too high an age not to remarry.
2007-02-04 02:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to remarry if you want to... The Bible says it is okay so go ahead and do it... There is nothing wrong with this. Just make sure she is the right one for your life and that you are ready for the marriage. I wish you the best. Jsut make sure you are not marrying on the rebound because you are lonely. Marry for the right reasons.
2007-02-04 01:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r still young got plenty of chances 4 remarrying not even widow but young ladies if u want to.
2007-02-04 01:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure you find out WHY she's a widow and how her husband died. Don't want her to be a black widow so to speak. Make sure he died of natural/accidental causes.
2007-02-04 02:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to sit around lonesome and grieving forever get remarried only if you love the women not just out of loneness
2007-02-07 15:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U HAVE TO REMARRY,BEC AFTER THE MARRIGE BOTH OF UR SON ,U FEEL VERY ALONE,THAT TIME IS VERY CRITICAL FOR YOU,BUT REMEBER IN THIS TYPE OF CASES MANY WOMENS ARE NOT FAITHFUL SO BEWARE.
2007-02-04 01:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by ROSERAJA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? don't close the door you have still a lot of living to do, and who knows what is round the corner.
Hugs x
2007-02-04 02:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by LMH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its depends on his/her own thoughts & beliefs.But better talk to sons 1st then thinking it after! & how much she loves her husband...
If everything goes well then go ahead.
2007-02-04 08:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by ZK431 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋