I started my period on the 10th of OCt and it ended on the 15th of Oct. I had sex with another guy on the 17th of oct but we used a condom.....i know that maybe i shouldn't be worried but i still am. I had sex with my boyfriend on the 19th and the 22 of oct the doc said i conceived on the 24th....which i know i didn't have sex that day. I don't know what to think. Oh ya i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend
2007-02-04 01:45:30 · 17 answers · asked by cutebabystar03 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Gee thanx.....i didn't think i needed to tell my whole life story or people were going to start calling me a bunch of names.My boyfriend knows already and he hasn't been only with me either......i didn't think i needed to explain all that i just wanted to know who you guys thought the dad was.....damn
2007-02-04 04:47:23 · update #1
Well,it sounds like your boyfriend is the father...I mean if u had sex with this other guy 17th and used protection chances are u didnt get pregnant by him, u ovulate 7-10 days after your period in order to get pregnant and sperm only lives inside a woman for 3-5 days..so, the sperm would of had to live inside of you through the condom and all 7 days which is unlikely...if u had sex with your boyfriend on the 19th and 22nd unprotected then yes he is almost 100% the father,the sperm was very much well capable of living inside of u from the 19th to the 24th. dont worry about it,its your boyfriends baby,now enjoy the pregnancy and i highley suggest u dont do this again *it will only cause a bad outcome...
2007-02-04 01:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you actually ovulated on the 24th, then the baby will be your boyfriend's baby. Sperm can only survive for a maximum of 5 days when very fertile cervical fluid is present. You can concieve a baby when having sex 5, 4, and 3 days before ovulation, but your chances are best when it's 2, 1 and day of ovulation. With that said, you can't be sure when you ovulated just by the date of your last period. Many women ovulate before day 14 just like many women ovulate after day 14. (For example, I usually don't ovulate till day 23.) Some women can ovulate as early as day 7 or 9. In this case, the baby would most likely be the other guy's baby. Still others, think they are having their period when in fact, they are having ovulation spotting. This accounts to why some women seem to get pregnant during their "period". So, there really is no way to be absolutely certain unless you have paternity testing done. If you go to an OB for maternity care, be aware the U/S dating is most accurate during first trimester. But U/S after after 20 weeks is safest since most systems are formed and functioning by this time. However, your "due date" can be off + or - by 10 days after the 9th or 10th week of pregnancy. So don't fall into the trap of changing your "due date" just because an U/S measures the baby at a certain age. U/S also is even less accurate in dating and measuring weight in the 3rd trimester. So don't believe the docs if they say you are measuring big or have a big baby.... In short, U/S and your due date are not a sure thing that the baby is your boyfriends'. I suggest after you have the baby, get the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility. It will help you chart your body's fertility signs so you know for certain when you ovulate so you can avoid or achieve pregnancy in the future. Good luck to you!
2007-02-04 02:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mother- Wife- Friend- Doula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sperm can live for 72 hours, so you didn't need to have sex on the day you conceived. but more then likely your boyfriend is the fater, have better judgement in the future. i've never been in this kind of situation, but i can only imagine its nerve wrecking. if you still have a little doubt when the baby is born jsut do a paternity test.
2007-02-04 01:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd call Maury! You will DEFINITELY need a DNA test, and my husband and I LOVE watching all of you on stage screaming at one man saying he's the father, only to hear him say, "You are NOT the Father!"
Grow up and be monogamous! Tell your boyfriend now so he can get the hell out of there! ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER!
2007-02-04 02:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by One Race The Human Race 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is more then likely your bf but you need to have a DNA test done when baby fets here. This is why you should not have multiple partners besides the fact of all the diseases. You need to let your bf know that there is a possibility that the other guy is the daddy.
2007-02-04 01:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by mommy of two 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend is the father since you had unprotected sex with him. Poor guy. Does he know you cheated? Be honest with him.
2007-02-04 01:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by ginger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Must be your boyfriend bse i hear sperms stay alive for two more days which makes 24th very possible.Call the baby Lilie
2007-02-04 01:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by nkoko nkulu ewooma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it has to be your boyfriends it may take the sprem a few days to get to the egg so it is posible you did concieve on the 24th but be honest to your boyfriend you wont like it if he cheated on you now would you?? poor guy doesnt know even if you do it for your unborn child dont lie to him any longer
2007-02-04 02:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by binky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its probably your boyfriends. And if your boyfriend was smart he would leave your stupid *** for cheating on him.Yay for girls having unprotected sex, bringing unwanted children into the world not being able to support them, which results in everyone elses tax dollars going up..
2007-02-04 01:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla born 8/18/09 <3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is most likely that your poor boyfriend is the father if the other guy used a condom when you cheated on him.
2007-02-04 01:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Nunya 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋