My ex says she still love me and always will. She even told me that maybe one day God will put us back together. How am I suppose to take this, as she wants to come back or what?
2007-02-04 01:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by waiting patiently 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont just stand there waiting, shes a ho!!go and get ya some too, and if it happens then good, if not you already have backup, women are ALL the most permiscous creatures on the planet, dont let her control you!!
2007-02-04 01:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by waterboy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. Move on. If she was highly interested in you, she wouldn't have left you.
One day "God" will put you back together? Okay, that's crazy. She's blaming God for her leaving? That's "magical thinking". And it's highly convenient since she doesn't have to take any responsibility for anything. I'm sorry, Bud, you're pining over a freak show.
She sounds like she has Borderline Personality Disorder.
2007-02-04 09:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blah blah blah. mine told me the same thing, but god wasn't in it. as he's sitting there engaged to his ex the day after he broke up with me. i was bawling my eyes out but i laughed in his face. he wanted to use me in case his little current relationship didn't work out, so he would have someone to fall back on. if he wanted to be with me he would be, that is the end of it.
to be honest i think that we are meant to be together, soulmates, whatever you want to call it. but i don't think i can put up with this disrespect. or maybe after she hurts him the way he hurt me he will grow up.
i don't know your situation but i think that she can't handle being with you right now and just needs some time and space. maybe she didn't want to end the relationship but something outside of you two made her and she has to resolve that. if you want to wait for her, go ahead. but if you are meant to be together you will be whether you wait for her or not.
2007-02-04 09:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! Wow!! This is so real to me...i am and have been in this same situation as you. and he is an amazing person. if i was not with my man now whom i so love very much!. I would so go for it! you live once and you know the other person is still there i say why not. you can not sop feelings you just can not stop the truth! :) good luck!
2007-02-04 09:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by RAIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE IT FOR WHAT IT IS WORTH. IF THERE IS ANY CHANCE FOR YOU TO GET BACK TOGETHER GOD WILL HAVE TO BE THE REASON. MAYBE SHE LOVES YOU BUT NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU. THERE IS A DIFFERENCE YOU KNOW. MOVE ON AND GO FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE. TAKE CARE!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-04 09:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by susta1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love this woman, u need to find out where her heart is at, and if she wants to come back to u. she may want to come back, u just have to find out for sure if this is what u both want. depends on what the reason for the divorce was, but only u can make up your mind here.
2007-02-04 09:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that this is most girls way of letting you down NICELY. We say that stuff because we don't want to hurt guy's too badly. We feel bad for breaking it off, so we say stuff we really don't mean. Sorry!
2007-02-04 09:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by KIMBO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 things:
a) she's your EX- girlfriend for a reason!
b) if your NOT married now, maybe you two can reconsile whatever broke you up to begin with.
c) if your married now you need to be pimp slapped w/divorced papers!
2007-02-04 09:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
refuse abruptly without second thought.
2007-02-04 09:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just get a last good bang out of her, then just tell her that it wont happen as we have broken up.
2007-02-04 09:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by Thowfeeq 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋