2007-02-04 01:25:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people crave those things they can't have. Just ignore them and shag the hell out of your wife.
2007-02-04 06:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're a "keeper" , at least in someone's eyes... that means a lot to some women... my guess is that you live in a relatively rural setting where "keepers" are few and far between... I'm sure it must be flattering...I suppose that it may even apply to more urban centres... women see "the ring" and see a guy willing to commit... not only that but they see a woman who thought you were No.1 Grade A. Husband, father of my children material... Ultimately some women are just practical... If "he" was good enough for her..He'll do just fine for me too...
Of course there's the "non-commitals" too... Women who just want to feel alluring by "testing" themselves against the vows you made... I mean.. what would be a greater ego boost than snagging a guy who has stood before family and friends and pronounced is eternal devotion to a woman... and was tempted by "her" to toss it all away.
Anyway... and either way... don't let a little flirting go to your head... (either head) :oP It's not about you...
2007-02-04 01:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by alex b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have said that same thing but it was men. I think that its the way we look. We must have a serene glow after we have found that someone. And there are people out there to that love the challenge of "the forbidden fruit" It seems people like the chase or the challenge and desire to get something that they can't have. Shine them on and eat up the attention. Every ego can use a boost once they are married.
2007-02-04 01:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are loser women. If they were not interested in you before you got married then why now? You married your wife and she excepted you for who you were when you were single. Women that try to go for married men are only looking to break up your marriage. They like challenges. Once they get you they will leave and find somebody else. They are snakes and do not go near thier snake house.
2007-02-04 06:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because now that you are married they want the challenge BUT also are you acting like you are married when you are out in public or are you still acting single and available? Do you wear your ring when you are out? When they hit on you do you tell them hey what is your problem??? i am happily married so get a life!
2007-02-04 01:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they didn't want to go out with you before you got married and now they know you're married and just hit on you to make you feel good and know you can't go out with them.
2007-02-04 06:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are women in the world who just want the thrill of taking a man away from the wife.
Or they think they can have a sugar daddy to buy them things so the wife don't find out.
Some women are just losers that way, steer clear of those .
2007-02-04 01:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Because you let them
2) Because their are women who dont want to commit and know that having a relationship with a man that is already committed is easier
3) Some women like the frill of it, men too
4) Because MOST men will cheat, so a lot of women will pursue you as long as you let her
5) Do yourself a favor and tell your wife that these women do
6) Pick up a Bible and read it; it will help you to stay focused on the gift God gave you (your wife).
Hope this helps
sharon
2007-02-04 01:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simple, a wedding ring on a man's finger is like the FDA stamp of approval. The female thinks that If someone married you, you must have some good qualities.
2007-02-04 01:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Twilight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you radiate 'challenge': you're not on the prowl, and you are a challenge. It's in their wiring, and it's why they gravitate toward 'bad boys' and other types of unhealthy (negative challenge) relationships as well.
When you are secure in yourself, having a good time with life, able to converse innocently and with humor, have an interesting passion for life, etc. you radiate positive challenge.
Kitty likes this.
2007-02-04 01:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, this is what happened to me when i got married, really , i mean before getting married , i had many guys hitting on me, but it was a lot more before i got married, which made me love seeing the surprise and disappointment in their faces when i say ....NO AM MARRIED :)
2007-02-04 01:41:52 · answer #11 · answered by zinaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋