Iv been going out with my girlfriend for two years it has been the best relationship both of us have ever had until recently when I found out she had lied to me about something which I didn’t expect from her as I have always been honest with her throw out the relationship, anyway I took being lied to really bad a dumped her and wouldn’t talk two her for two days finally when I calmed down I lisent to her storey and told her that it was ok and I would forget about it. the day after we went for lunch and went back to her house after I had a feeling there was something wrong with her so I kept asking if she was ok she said she didn’t feel the same about me and wanted a break two figure out how she feels about us so I tried to give her some space but she called me the next day and stated telling me that she still loved me so I ask if she was ok now an if she needed any more time she said yes which I didn’t really understand so I asked her why she needed more time she said she didn’t know. What I’m thinking now is she may be testing me or getting me back at me for dumping her for lying and I don’t think I deserve it. what should I do I’m really confused? What should I do?
2007-02-04 00:37:21 · 4 answers · asked by kenny m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanx for the answer people, ill give a little more detail, I did talk to her when she phoned and I told here exactly how I felt and I haven’t tried to contact her since then. she knows how I feel so that’s all I can do. She text me and phoned me last night and said she loved me agen and all that. I just don’t know what to think? Yes I should have let her explain when she lied but I didn’t expect her to lie to me and I was shocked.
2007-02-04 01:03:41 · update #1
First ting in relationships its not nice at no time to lie. But u should have given her a chance to explain her self first before dumping her.
She might be testing you, i suggest that u go and talk with her and get everything i mean everything that u have on you mind out in the open. And then you should know what is really going and you two can work things out from there .
Please listen too or else this wouldnt work.
good luck.
2007-02-04 00:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by RICKY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has another man on her mind but she isn't quiet ready to make that big breakup since she isn't sure if the other guy thing will work out. Either that or she has you right where she wants you and loves to see you squirm.
2007-02-04 00:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure but by what you said..she is also hurt & confused by everything.
I think she is trying to take in all thats happened and find some balance in it.
Just give her time, but let her know it's gonna be alright.
2007-02-04 00:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love a woman you have to overlook if it did not involve cheating send her roses and pray for the woman yu love
2007-02-04 00:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋