Trading Spouses - God Warrior- Is the money binding according to the allocation given?

Question

At the end, it says how the "Dark Sided" lady wanted them to spend their money & one was $10,000 for Ashley (oldest)and Abigail (Ashley's daughter) to move into their own place but as of last week's show, Margaret was on the show a second time with a black family & Ashley was still living at home.The black mother told Ashley that she should consider moving. The money was from this episode was accepted so how binding is the allocation of the money? Suggestive or binding?

$5,000 for Ashley's dance certification & $10,000 for her to move out. (Ashley doesn't look like she has the body of a dancer)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CCODIhAXbQM
5:10

Answer 1

I've heard, that the money will sit in something similar to a trust fund until it's used for what it was allocated for. However I can't find any verification of that online.

Ashley will probably have an account somewhere getting a little bit of interest until she does move out. IF she ever moves out.

It is odd that someone like her would teach dance, but then when I've watched "So You Think You Can Dance" all sorts of people audition who can't dance at ALL who are dance teachers. Nigel said once "you should give all those people you've taught their money back."

Ashley is teaching young enough kids that it would be primarily basic information that she could relay. Thus I think it's a bit different.

I do think she should move out though. The thing I wished Latoya (the other mom from swap 2) had said to Ashley is that they are both the SAME AGE. It's about self esteem though, and having the balls to move out and make a name for yourself.

I think Ashley has a low self esteem and staying at home is her comfort zone she doesn't want to leave.

Answer 2

Obviously not if Ashley didn't move out.

Answer 3

i couldn't stop laughing when i saw her rant for the first time on TV.she was recently on a another episode of trading spouses about 3 weeks ago.she seemed to clam down a bit.