Yesterday, while driving home i mentioned to my GF that i'd installed a snooping program on all our home computers and had access to all the IM's emails, and other information accessed on the internet. She turned very pale and had this strange look on her face.
She didn't ask what i'd found, but am wondering if she thinks i know about the several affairs she's been having over the years.
2007-02-04 00:06:35 · 7 answers · asked by michael_trussell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have serious issues for doing that in the first place,she is scared and in doubt you fool,so basically she's going to be asking the people she confides in,if it's possible you know or not,what should she do? Deny,make up stories...etc. You are tormenting her if she's still with you and trying to act normal,if i was in her place i would pick up and leave,if you guys want to work it out you have to talk.
2007-02-04 00:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lolo Lovou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the several affairs in the past hasn't bothered you enough to bring them up then what are a couple of more going to hurt? You get what you deserve.
2007-02-04 10:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by oldokie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she knows u know, and wonders what she should do about it. ask her what she wants to do? what do u want to do? now that u know. only u can decide what to do. are u waiting for her to come clean with it?
2007-02-04 08:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is lacking faithfulness, trust and honesty. Your biggest problem is not as simple as whether or not you should have installed this software. You two need to start by being honest with each other, then try to figure out if you even want a future together.
2007-02-04 08:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes is not wondering, she knows you know all her secrets already. The question should be, why are you still with her?
2007-02-04 08:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just ask, gosh if you can't trust someone leave or make them leave...
2007-02-04 08:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by I love the flipflops 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, duh. Yeah she knows you know. Why didn't you just come out with it?
2007-02-04 08:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋