how do u know when he seeing someone else?

Question

please help, i;m confused and need someone to open up my eyes.

Answer 1

If he's not spending as much time with you, he is seeing someone else.
If he tells you something and you are pretty sure it's not true, he is seeing someone else.

Answer 2

are u feeling as if things are changed, is he leaving u out of things, has his sexual moves changed drastically, does he talk on the phone in a different room, start fights over nothing, sit and stare into space, is he uncommunicative when he use to talk to u? has he purchased some new clothing lately? does he often say he has to work over? or out of town? does he find fault with u all of the time? criticize u? has he become selfish with money? is he preoccupied with something, and not interested in u or anything about u? does he seem to disrespect u now, when he didn't before? is everyone else suddenly a priority to him, but not u? do u feel unloved? has he suddenly begun to disagree with everything u say? is he sleeping alot, seems to be avoiding u. did he suddenly get a cell phone? is he unkind when he doesn't have to be, he is trying to find reasons to leave u.

Answer 3

There are usually small tell-tell signs. If things are adding up...he's not being accounted for...his attitude towards you changes without real reason...he's no longer available...things like that, but most importantly go with your instinct. If you are feeling that something is not right, nine times out of ten it's worth checking out. Perhaps you're just a little insecure, but that 's not a good sign either. Hope this helps...from one who's been down the "he's cheating on me" path many a beau!

Answer 4

If they are working late and not wanting to come home, they are seeing someone else. If they decide to go do things with their friends rather than you then they are seeing someone else. If they are suddenly worried about their weight or appearance, then they are seeing someone else. Dump them, move on.

Answer 5

changes in behavior like : new friends, new hangout, answering normal questions differently, sneakin around, & he just doesnt give you the same "LOOK" that he used to. These are signs to look for unless you have other evidence thats more concreite. But when it comes down to it I always go with my gut. Tune out whatever your heart says & think about what your instinct tells you.

Answer 6

If he is treating you differently, not as attentive, working later hours, has unexplained lateness's, has private phone calls.
Always wants to go out with friends without you.
Those are a few of the warning signs.

Answer 7

if he walks out the room everytime his phone rings
you may even find him in the garden on the phone
His friends who know about the affair will find talking to u uncomfortable, so you will see less of them.
Women who know will ask you, how things are going between you both
he becomes more argumentative with you
he turns his phone off when his with you or takes it everywhere with him, including the loo, bath etc
He stays out late or dosn't come home at all
he takes more care in his appearance
Showers when he comes in or more regularly
starts telling fibs about little stupid things (His hiding something bigger)
Accuses you of ALWAYS Nagging, (He is trying to justify the affair

Hope this helps

Answer 8

if you are asking...then he probably is!! Ask yourself if you are getting the same amount of attention that you were getting before? Does he call you everyday? Does he tell you all of the things that he said in the beginning? Does he hang out with the "guys" more than usual? This is where i would start....if all else fails....JUST ASK HIM!!!

Answer 9

If you suspect he's cheating, then ask him. His body language should say it all, unless he's got a really good poker face. Trust is essencial in relationships. It may be best to take your partner at face value until you find accual evidence of him fooling around. Otherwise you're just going to drive yourself nuts.

Answer 10

a good sign is if he starts acting weird you know distant and edgy making mountains out of mole hills, leaving all the time with different excuses and also if he starts being disinterested in sex...