You want sex, but you treat each other like slabs of meat!
You want Love but are so un-willing to give of yourselves!
You want satisfying relationships, but always "Your Way"!
You want a Marriage, but are so willing to "See someone else"!
You step into a situation, but blame someone else in the end!
What about "Responsibility", "Accountability", "Rules", "Law"??
You live your Life as if there is No God, in anything! I feel sad, for you, sometimes. Why.....is there......Life?? Yours and Mine??
Do you really think that you and I are here by "Happen-chance"??
People want honesty, but then they "Hide" the truth, about themselves, from every one else. Where are your feelings? And where do they come from?? Are we trully, nothing more than, a body, without a Soul or Spirit??
Why would anyone mock the questions that someone asks, in sincerity and honesty?? If we are all human beings, then there is no one better or worse than the other, so why do we belittle others??
2007-02-03 23:47:00 · 23 answers · asked by dontwobears@sbcglobal.net 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow what a good question!!
Lots of very good points, I am sure you have alot of people thinking including myself!!
2007-02-04 00:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Shem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My personal thoughts on when someone belittles others they are just insecure with their own life. Some people also get a thrill out of hurting others. As far as love, you have to love yourself before you love someone else. I think my feelings come from my mind, heart and by life expieriences. Also how I was raised to respect others and to help others if you can. If I was married I would never see someone else, to me marriage is sacred. life is what you make of it. We all mistakes and some of us learn from them others dont. Those are the ones who blame others in the end cause they cant admit they make a mistake. I also think we are here for a reason. To me relationships takes work and it also takes both people. it shouldnt be your way or no way, it is 50/50 both people to make it work. Well those are my thoughts, hopefully I answered your questions. i gave those on my life expierences. Have a good day!
2007-02-04 00:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I am glad that you asked this question. It is a very good question. I really don't have an answer for you other than that people want what they can't have and what they have they don't want. I have also wonder why men and women get on and complain about their spouse or they think that their spouse is cheating on them, why not worry about the marriage first and take of the marriage and then get on here for fun. This place doens't have all the answers or the right answers. So can yo tell me this why do people do that?
2007-02-04 00:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they answer in this way so that no one knows how pathetic they are in their own lives. This is one reason I have almost stopped posting questions on here, I get ridiculed and belittled instead of being offered helpful advice. I feel that if someone has not been in your situation and cannot offer any sound advice...just offer support...but instead they always want to tell you what THEY WOULD do, when in fact, you do not know what you would do unless you are in or have been in a particular situation. Your question is great!!
2007-02-04 00:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great question and yes l guess a lot of what you said is very true of all of us at times. l suppose all l can say in my defence is that l am only human, l like anyone else can make mistakes. l have never cheated though, yes l am guilty of little white lies at times but then who isn't l guess. l do believe in doing unto others as l would have them do unto me. l also truly believe in sincerity and faithfulness. l do not believe in belittling others as l feel it is very cruel. Hope this has helped you a little in some way.
2007-02-04 00:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i know exactly what u mean. what ur saying is the TRUTH. the truth abt all of us.. we are all hypocryts. contradicting ourselves in every move. but thats just the way it is. however it seems to me that there's a certain person ur directing this question to. someone who maybe upset u by doing these exact things. so why dont u face those people, or that person and tell them all this
2007-02-03 23:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by junglemonkey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The absense of the thought of a future life makes it difficult for us to live as if there is real meaning for our lives. Sin is in our nature, and we find it easier to receive than to give.
2007-02-04 00:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by cardo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's an anoymous forum without traditional "rules of engagement," if you post expect a variety of responses-some good-some bad...like life?
2007-02-03 23:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very well placed Q. You have a lot of Q´s. You should go into Politics and try and make a change.
2007-02-04 00:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am almost everything you said above and honey I got a spirit and a soul,it's all me in the end.
2007-02-03 23:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lolo Lovou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋