In the past week my entire life has changed. Im only in my teens but on Wednesday night my parents kicked me out and luckily for me some relatives about an hour south of London took me in. I didnt get to say goodbye to any of my friends in Scotland, I dont know anyone down here, I dont have a job and right now I feel so alone. I miss everyone back home especially my dad who arranged me somehwere to stay. Some of my friends have turned their back on me cause I've left and I really want to make a new start for my life. Where could I go to meet new friends and have a good time, and does anyone know of any good waitressing jobs (if there is such a thing) in Surrey? Or even chef training?
2007-02-03 23:24:08 · 13 answers · asked by N00b londoner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dude
Hang in there brother - you will meet kool people soon that will help you through this. Good places to go include:
The local pub (if you're old enough) - a quiet backstreet one is best.
Local football team - non league is better becuase you can actually talk to people during the game.
A small bar where they have a"jam" night - mix with musicians - they LOVE to chat!!!
Good luck mate
2007-02-03 23:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Stav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should think your self lucky that you have got some were to saty and all you have to do is just get out an look i know some were you could for a job but as surrey is a big place i dont know were you are there a loads of jobs goin in the woking shopping center hope this helps and good luck
2007-02-03 23:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Stephen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure I can help, but you were kicked out presumably for a reason- it's up to you to change your life now.
Stay positive, it's not all bad down South, and the weather's a bit better usually! Pop along to your local Jobcentre and see if they have anything to offer you.
If not, maybe you could do a course at college to improve your skills, and hopefully make some new friends.
Good luck.
2007-02-03 23:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
:( thats really horrible...ur friends must not have been very good friends if they turned their backs on u....work on gettin the job first ull meet new people that way especially if u waitress...o and what about school??? u still gonna go? always a good idea...plus concerts or at least local bands-always meet new people at those places....and i mean ur close to london where they have tons of awesome bands :) hey look at this as the start of a new beginning itll b good for u it just takes a little work...good luck i really truely hope every thing works out 4 u :)
2007-02-03 23:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by dana <3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this seems a very sad story, try and get a hobbie, maybe dancing or go to extra lessons at night at a college, some you won't have to pay for, also if you look in The Stage newspaper they have job op for waitressing as well as acting, try everything that comes to you, im sure you will get noticed with your accent. as for your m8s, obv not m8s if they have stopped talking to you, try and make up with your parents and look for something new to look forward to, like a career
good luck, don't be too sad, the best thing about been down is you have fun coming back up again
2007-02-03 23:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by pinklinz@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look when you get a job or go to college you are going to meet a lot of new freinds, i guess you must feel hurt by being chucked out get some counselling even go to the smaritans and talk about things you can go back again.
Its horrilbe feeling lonely, go to the citizens advice and see what is going on. Go to the local college and ask for a prospectus, get a job in a bar just for now or shop to get you out and feeling better in yourself this will change but its up to you to change it and one day you will have fun and lots of nice friends about you and forget this unhappy time. You are precious God says so do it for yourself. and you can do a course at college keep telling yourself you can and you will take care
2007-02-03 23:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by denise g 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
friendship does not happen over night...i am sorry for your situation though, i too was kicked out at a young age and i had to make it alone, but i got me a job and that's when i made new friends, go to the job centre have a look for a job in your line of profession and make the most of it, you will find new friends soon enough, you just have to go out and meet them, don't despair, you wont be lonely for long....
2007-02-03 23:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your parents kick you out? wait are you in the upper teens? If so you need to get your own job or go to college! If not go back there and tell them you will sue!
2007-02-03 23:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi you will get through it,
My mum kicked me out at 13 cos she didn't want to face her problems,
Break this down into stages,
You can still talk to your friends via txt and phone,
Try catering agencies for training, there's loads in London,
Quite frankly I feel they have done you a huge favour,
Who wants to live with someone that kicks out their own child,
You didn't state the reasons for them doing that,but if it was my daughters they would have to do something really extreme for me to kick them out, ie a bank robbery or murder.
You can get through it.
Lots of luck
2007-02-03 23:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your in your teens & living with relative you need to stay in school & not work yet.
Your parents threw you out they can give money to your family for keeping you.
Or just help out around the house, You must get your education so you can take care of yourself when your of age.
That way you dont have to rely on others & can't be thrown out ever again by family.
Good luck.
2007-02-03 23:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋