why do people say that people that are kind are the worst when they are angered???

Question

i think i am like that.............................
when i get angry i suddenly get thoughts of doing brtal things to anyone but someone always stops me immediattely.

Answer 1

Usually, people who are calm and quiet most of the time don't ever express frustration until it is extreme. This is not healthy, because keeping your frustration bottled up can be a problem.

If you let your anger get bottled up, and don't release it when it is small, it will build up, and then you are really, really angry, and you might do something you regret.

If you are that type of person, and you get very angry, and someone else has to step in, and stop you from doing something violent, then you need to go see a counselor, and get help with managing your anger.

This is better than blowing up and doing something that you will regret the rest of your life.

Answer 2

They walk softly but carry a big stick.

Answer 3

I've never heard that saying, nor can I so that my life experiences would prove what you are saying to be true.

Answer 4

I guess those kind folks expect everyone else to be equally kind too.