could i be pregnant?

Question

i am 3 days late. me and my partner havent been trying 4 a baby and he said if i am he wnats me to get rid of it as he wants kids wiv me but not yet. and do u fink he will change his mind once he nos i am pregnant. he said he doesnt want to lose me

Answer 1

Never heard of condoms?There is no excuse in this day and age...You reap what you sow.

Answer 2

The chance is relativly high as your late but lots of things including stress can cause a late menses and you didnt say if you had any other symptoms (they can also be similer to menses symptoms)a good quality reliable test brand such as first response will be able to give you a 99.9% accurate answer by now so i advise testing and finding out for definate first as the stress of this can cause your late period.As for the abortion personally im against them as ive lost a much wanted pregnancy to ectopic and had to go through the pain of surgery to take my beloved bundle of joy away,although in certain situations i feel it can be thebest thing but if your in a healthy loving relationship hell stand by you no matter what.If he doesent want to lose you but tells you you must get rid of it it cant be that much of a good relationship for him,Money is never the problem as most people say as you find a way to manage.Having a baby will make or brake a couple its alot of strain,But an abortion will definatley brake you if you want the pregnancy because youll resent the desision he forced on you.You need to get as much support as possible if you are and really consider what you are doing dont rush a desicion but a life is a life and theres many woman out there whod long for a little baby and theres other who dont deserve them.Really think about this to be honest i hope your not pregnant to save a horrid situation,and be more careful in the future with him to save yourself these problems.But if you are Well best of luck whatever desicion you make

Answer 3

I found out i was pregnant when i was well over 7 months gone and told my partner of nearly two years and he was horrified. We constantly argued and i thought i was gonna lose him but he stayed and after Thomas came along he melted and his behaviour is now that of a loving father. However the father of my first child told me to get rid of it at 6 months then said he'd stick around but scarpered after 3 months so it can go either way really. You both need to sit down and talk honestly about how you both feel as a baby is a huge responsibility and alot of money and you don't want to end up as another statistic like i nearly was

Answer 4

Accidents can happen, but the final decision is up to you as to whether you want to have a baby or not. If your boyfriend says he doesnt want a baby and you are pregnant then he can choose to walk out the door, he may change his mind when he discovers you are in fact pregnant! Although he could be a complete b**tard with you and not face up to his responsibilities!

But as i said, the final decision lies with you, and if you want to keep the baby, then do so, follow your heart and do not step lightly into a decision you may regret sometime in the future.

Good Luck!

Answer 5

Don't speculate, Take a test and find out first! Do they have a doctor of clinician like Planned Parenthood in the UK? excuse my ignorance, I am from the states. First step is to take a test, second step is for you to speak with someone about all of your options, and decide what's best for you. You need to think about all the variables, and whether or not you are ready to raise a child.So much depends on your age, so it's hard to give advice not knowing how old you are! Good luck.

Answer 6

Obviously by your spelling and your complete ignorance to the spell check button at the top right, something tells me you are not too bright.

So let me say this, seeing how I will probably be one of the millions of tax payers out there who will have to be supporting you when you introduce yet another bastard into this world. In this day and age you have no excuse for such Balaton disregard for things that prevent such situations (like the one you are in) from happening. This is the age of knowledge and for some one to let this happen to themselves all I can say to you ant everyone like you is, You reap what you sew. And if you don't know what that means than there is no hope for you.

Answer 7

Why worry and go on before you even know? Why not go ahead and take a pregnancy test and go from there. If he dosen't want kids now, he will never want them cause what is the difference between now or later unless you are so young

Answer 8

If he doesn't want to lose you he should stop behaving like a complete s*it. If you're trying for a baby and are now pregnant it's because you're supposed to be. He's being a bully.

Answer 9

It's not fair on the baby to be unwanted by the father. I know cause my father didn't want children, had two & still goes on about how he was tricked into fatherhood.

Answer 10

Any guy who is callouse enough to allow you to give up your baby wouldn't make a good father anyway. Think hard on this. He isn't thinking of a child in the warm fuzzy way a parent would.

Answer 11

dear H,

i dont really know if you are pregnant, but statistics says that everytime a girl asks that question, 80% of the time she is pregnant... and it increases in direct proportion if the pregnancy was not planned...