I am working on my looks and maintaining weight as well as learning to be more positive... will I have another shot with her again?
She left me cos she thought I dont do anything for myself ( I became fat and didnt give her the attention she wanted )
I know I wanted to treasure her right from the start.... yet I did silly things/ say silly things...
I am working out and paying more attention to improve my physical look and communication skills...
yet I am trying not to get panicky that all my work will not be reward ( ie she dont return to me and I still achieved nothing..)
I also dont have a close friends to hang out with regularly... I am emotionally empty. I dont want to live like this anymore...any kind suggestions would be most grateful...
confused and lost.
2007-02-03 22:04:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was never clingy... in fact I let do a lot of her own stuff and leave her alone quite often... but I do admit, I didnt like it when she kept complaining how I look or joke about it in front of others.
2007-02-04 00:49:03 · update #1
It's great that you're working on yourself. What your ex wanted was probably for you to show initiative, be less clingy, and be independent. Please be aware that you should be doing these improvements for yourself, not for someone else. You deserve looking and feeling good! You can't force her to come back, so get involved in activities such as local interest groups or helping out at charities and other events. You will meet some very awesome people and thereby make friends. I'd suggest joining an athletic group, and then you can make friends as you excercise (two in one.) Good luck!
2007-02-03 23:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by roxusan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well stay in school. You will fall in love again. Give it time. Eat healthier foods. Exercise. I am sure your parents did not tell you that life was easy. It is LONG and complex....a journey with an ending. Enjoy the journey. Don't be too hard on yourself. Things could be alot worse. One day you will be 40 and you wil think that life is half over. Enjoy each and everyday.
2007-02-09 17:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by BMF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loves you she will not break up with you just because of your looks or your weight. but instead she will support you and encourage you to improve your looks than breaking up with you. maybe she has her own reason. for now, focus on yourself and enjoy life. be positive and be friendly. don't just focus on doing everything just for her. maybe she's not the right one for you. a lot of girls out there who is far better than her. keep up the good work bro.
2007-02-11 00:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by anonymousme11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad for you that you are doing something for YOU! You cannot, however, control the feelings of other people.
Remember that you are improving yourself, not improving to impress or win back the affections of others.
2007-02-04 07:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by MaryCheneysAccessory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she sees that you are putting in so much effort to help urself she may be willing to try again. But there may have also been other things that attributed to her breaking up with you. So you need to talk to her
2007-02-04 06:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by traven_blood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK........hmmmmmm....it seems that u dont like to socialize very much,,,,,,,,,,,,and u also feel a lil bit insecure...............if this is the case, how can any one like a person like this..........................how old r u............in my opinion .............besides improving ur personality, take regular exercise, go to some park for that , bcoz there is a probability that in parks u can have chances to socilaize with other people.............................that will help u to be more confident.
2007-02-04 06:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by garry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋