or maybe they have just made a seriuous mistake what do you think and should you forgive i get quite angry when people do this to others and said this sort don,t change easily do you think so
2007-02-03 21:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Adultery is never a good thing.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-02-03 21:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think people who commit adultery are just confused and arent sure what they want..or who they want to be with... im not saying its a good thing of course..cuz its not... but also think that we´re all only human..and we all make mistakes...some bigs ones and some small ones...but that doesnt make you a bad person...it just makes you someone whos still figuring alot of things...but this is of course if you didnt mean to hurt the other person you were with...but if you´re the type that doesnt care about the person you´re with and are just being a player, which is the type i think that you´re talking about....well then yeah my understanding runs out on such cases.
Dont get me wrong though, if my partner cheated on me, i would be hurt and devasted and i may not even tell him that i understand he just made a mistake cuz i would be so angry... and i think it would take me some time to get passes that anger enough to understand the whole situation as a whole...but yeah...i know he didnt mean to hurt me ..so i dont know if i could ever forgive him..and i certainly wont forget...but i would understand...as sad as it would make me...i would still understand...
2007-02-03 22:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. It is wrong and if a person is really in a "bad" marriage, there are other ways to go about it than sleeping around when you are legally committed to someone. I sometimes here people say they stay because of the children but they are hurting the children by committing adultry. People never look at it from that aspect though.
2007-02-04 00:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by simply_ch0c0late 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they will all burn in hell for thier actions, sure I dont think they are losers, do I think they are wh*res? yes. Do I think they should be forgiven? I dont know the situation, but for most no.
Oh yeah some of yall will say god will forgive us for this little sin, its only one of ten.
Sorry bud, but youll be burning in hell with me, oh no I didnt commit adultery, I commited murder, and thats one of the ten too! LOL
2007-02-03 22:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't like cheaters. I had a married couple that worked for me. Everyone knew he was a cheater and she was a real biatch - - but thought she was God's gift to men and was clueless as to what her husband said about her and especially how he flirted and cheated. I really, to this day, wish I could tell her. But she would NEVER belive it.
(I fired the pair of them also - they were impossible to have around).
2007-02-03 22:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband (ex) committed adultery when I was on the verge of being admitted to a Hospice. He couldn't wait for my death. His excuse was "I didn't plan it. It just happen".
My kid & I are heart broken, our family broken, our assets broken.
In our situation the only winner is the mistress - big fianncial gain.
However I didn't die.
2007-02-03 22:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that depends on the person and the situation, there's no absolute answer to this, alot of factors go into cheating, something is obviously wrong in the primary relationship that wasn't addressed. if you do decide to forgive someone and work it out, you must absolutely forgive them and trust them again, if you can;t do that get out and save everyone further heartache.
2007-02-03 21:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly yes. I had a friend who was married and both her and her husband committed adultery. It ruined our friendship, but I'm better for it because I realized what a loser she was for doing that to her family and friends.
2007-02-03 21:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
People aren't losers, but we sure can make some lose mistakes.
2007-02-03 21:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Teresa t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..my former wife commited adultery on me and I don't consider her a loser.....she just made a mistake.
2007-02-03 21:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋