This is tricky because it is difficult for legal professionals to find out if a woman is doing it out of love or something else ... ... yet everyone knows or have heard of cases where a rich man ends up paying a huge sum of money to a woman who never loved him.
Everyone wants to be with someone who would be there in times of trouble and also happiness. But a woman who never loved a man would be quite unhappy with the whole marriage. Pretenses can only last this long ... ... what then?
And how do these woman feel about their social life and other aspects? Surely there must be a lot of emotional damage done.
Love is extremely beautiful but in a materialistic society, it is easy to go for the huge wallet even when cupid knocks.
Problem arises when interacting with these people because they have not worked for their money in the normal sense and view life very differently. As bank tellers or waitresses, you would see these people behaving in ways most bombastic and arrogant.
2007-02-03 20:55:19 · 24 answers · asked by thinkpp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have a friend who is with a guy for just his money and for him to pay her rent, buy her kids stuff and pay all the bills. She explained to her 13 yr old daughter (in front of me) that she was just with him for support, financial and that she is sorry her kids hate him, but that is the way it is. So her daughter tells me just today, "yeah, I wanted money so I was nice to _______ and he gave me money". All the while a male friend of mine I have known many years use to be in a 4 year long relationship with same girl and he has moved back into town and she is sneaking around to have sex with him. He is well aware of what she is doing and as long as he gets to spend SOME time with her, he is happy. She is quite pretty and quite the talker too, however lately everyone that has seen her around town has told me she looks like crap. I think it is because of the double life she is living and guilt is getting to her. I also think, YES, it is the same as prostitution, or worse, look at what kind of example she is setting for her kids too!
2007-02-03 22:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men have got to know that a young healthy women with a beautiful body is not marrying them because they are attractive and got it going on.
she wants a hot bod just like him!
Now the prostitute is not pretending that she is not in it for the money, you know the price upfront and you tell her the fantasy before hand.
The lady the man marries and the man both pretend that the women is marrying him because of love.
Scenario one: the Prostitute
They both know it is fantasy and are openly aware from the start because the price is discussed in the beginning
Scenario two:the Young Wife
They both know that it is a fantasy, but they do not discuss it or the price until the lawyer does it in the end
The best thing is to stay with the woman who is growing old gracefully with you and has been there with you from the beginning! Be nice to each other!
2007-02-03 21:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a prostitute you definitely get sex for the money, not guaranteed with gold digger. The sex is for you with the prostitute but with the gold digger its probably about pleasing her. Prostitution is comparatively honest, it does not pretend to be what its not. Also with gold digging there is a kind of prostitution of emotions - which strikes me as sinister and more evil. The other point is that prostitutes cost less. e.g. Paul McCartney and Heather Mills: He could have had a lifetime of really pretty prostitutes for the money he lost on her. In short gold diggers are a rip off, prostitutes are comparatively honest about what is happening.
2016-05-24 02:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriages were and in some countries are "arranged", a business arrangement. Its a relatively new concept that "love" is a requirement to marriage. Marriages that work require an extraordinary amount of WORK, TIME and Patience. Love might make it easier BUT you can have a "successful" marriage without it IF you BOTH are willing to give it the attention it needs. Companionship, stability and a happy home are all attainable-A prostitute gets paid for one hour of sex and leaves...much easier than a wife
2007-02-03 23:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am not defending the woman who marries a man she doesn't love for money and but i think prostitution is a far lower act... A prostitute chooses to sell herself every night... while a wife doesn't exactly sell herself, by being a GOOD wife she should be loyal to her husband and do her share of any other activities, so in a way or another she is paying him back regardless the reason she married him for
2007-02-03 21:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It works both ways, you know. Plenty of ugly older men marry beautiful young women because it makes them feel youthful and desirable to show off their "trophy wives". Some of these men fool themselves that the woman is marrying him because she loves him - some of them know the truth, but it suits both of them. Bottom line is, people marry (or live together) for all sorts of reasons... security, money, family pressure ... sometimes even love! And quite frankly, a marriage made for the first three reasons has just as much chance of lasting as a love match. Anyway, who's worse morally, the prostitute or the man who pays her?
2007-02-03 21:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by aussiepom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The difference between a prostitute and a woman who marries for money is the prostitute will still have sex with the guy after he's married.
2007-02-03 21:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What wou have described is just another reason to abandon the concept of marriage. So, if one wants to pay for sex, he will do it without legal obligations. No one can take advantage of him. Then, love will be "reserved" for spirited people and also, it will be a reason for personality upgrade. The world will be a better place then. And also, there will be no abandoned children.
2007-02-03 21:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Wintermute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a prostitute is fairly cheap, wit the other one if there's no prenup it could lead u to askin 4 money on the streets. the prostitute u can lose for $100 or less, try that wit the golddigger
2007-02-03 21:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by mv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rich man usually loves his wife even if she doesnt, but doesn't love a prostitute. He wouldnt get married to his wife if he didnt think she gave him more than sex because he can go to a prostitute for that.
2007-02-03 21:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by Lily 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋