I keep dreaming that it's my wedding day (I'm not going out with anyone at the moment) and I haven't even bought a wedding dress, I'm running around town paniking and every bride shop is either closed or shut down! Everyone is waiting at the church while this is going on, I end up shouting at my mum (who passed away 7 years ago) blaming her for me not getting a dress. It's all very bizaar! Just like to get your thoughts please!
2007-02-03 20:39:45 · 14 answers · asked by Minniex 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I've had this dream once before as well
2007-02-03 20:54:01 · update #1
Just a shot, don't take this too seriously:
The wedding seems to symbolize the important events of your life which have not yet occured. You feel that you are alone (all of the shops being closed) and working frantically on these things alone (hence the panic). You may have had your mother's advise and support before she passed and have somehow repressed feelings that she abandoned you to life before you are ready.
I would say you are probably stressing out over something in your life (whether you are aware of it or not) and it is manifesting in your dream. You may have seen a picture of a wedding subconsciously even and combining that with some feelings for your mother your dream came about.
You may be positively reinforcing this dream by thinking about it. I would think it likely you have mentioned this to a close friend or even a pet maybe.
My thoughts anyway. Dream interpretation is not exactly something one should take too seriously.
2007-02-03 20:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by lordsomos 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Analytical survey of your brain.
The death of your mother has provided a vacuum of remorse for something you may have said that hurt her and you alike and something you deeply regret, so much so you have not been able to forget the incident. The fact is you loved mum deeply and this incident has put you off of of meaningfully relationships with men in general and you political stand on men woman relationships has made matters worse. You now know that there is more to life than work and equal opportunities and you crave for the years you have let go by without having a real relationship. You do not say your age but unlike other mediums I am going with the force which tells me you are around 35 which is late to have children and this is as others have mentioned may be a sign that the biological clock is sending out a warning to you to hurry up. Hurrying up is the last thing you want in your state of mind but nevertheless you are now ready for that realationship that matters and I can tell you it is on it's way, 'patience' is called for. The dress is an indication that you are now ready for this relationship. Your star sign ''Gemini'' indicates two children, but this can't be the force definatly says you have no children. Shopping for the dress and the panic associated with it indicates you need a good holiday to relax and chill out. All those waiting at the church are waiting for you to come back to reality. Shouting at your mother is a sign that you are ready to let her go and get on with your life.
Dates for meeting a new partner you will relate to:
Feb 28th 2007
April 3rd 2007
June 30th 2007 (Special day)
Warning--Keep away from married men
2007-02-03 23:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Redmonk 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is your clock ticking? Feeling like you'll never get married? Or are you just wishing for a steady relationship and not being able to find one?
Stress can play tricks in your head. You tend to manifest this stress in various ways. It could be the old adage, if only I had someone that could take care of me...my problems would all go away. Which isn't true by a long shot. You just end up adding your problems with his and then you're both headed for a breakup.
2007-02-03 21:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mr O 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it sounds like the dream of "unpreparedness-anxiety" coupled with "family" connection with you as the link between this generation and the next.
you feel that you have LARGE responsibility-role in re fulfilling expectations .. the world itself obstructs this part of your goal-seeking. This is felt as pressure to perform. If you are young (which seems to be the case) the early passing of your mother is a huge loss, which makes life more difficult.
If she was still here, perhaps your life would have less of the stress which you feel.
The dream may be telling you this ... and trying to lead you to accepting "what needs to be done, must be done by *you*."
and that perhaps it is more wise to choose your own goals rather than living to fulfill the expectations of others.
you might read some CGJung material on dreaming.
good luck
2007-02-03 21:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by atheistforthebirthofjesus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With the information you've given, it sounds as if you are feeling unprepared to make an important decision in your life and are angry with your mum for dying and leaving you without her support.
2007-02-03 20:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Keztacular 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feeling you have left something too late or you have missed out on something. Or perhaps you realise you have not acted quickly enough to avert a situation or take advantage of it. It can also mean an avoidance of responsibility
2007-02-05 05:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dreams are nearly always linked to things that have happen in real life of maybe things that will happen in the future. if you know someone whos getting married and they are worried about it, that could be were the dream came from. the bit about your mum might just be there because your missing her. i don't think it means anything in particular i shouldn't let it bother you.
2007-02-03 20:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by kt 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its an anxiety dream about being happy in the future
Is something to do with your mum holding you back in someway?
If so remember what it is and let it go x
2007-02-03 20:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by Northern Spriggan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are worried you may not get married and you are blaming your mum for the problem! Your mum is probably a strict person.
2007-02-03 20:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is just a way of reminding you that fairytales don't go right just like life. You feel guilty about never telling your mum thankyou for life and angry with her for going before you told her.
2007-02-03 21:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by roger a 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋