lots of people like to tell me to call them yet they never pick up the phone and call me. when i call from time to time noone calls me to see how i'm doing so i just stop.
2007-02-03 19:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It's called selfishness. I have a friend who likes to pull something similiar on me from time to time. She'll say, "We never DO anything!!!" When I ask her when she's free, she either has no time or only one day/evening to go out. When we do talk about going out, she wants me to pick out what we'll do. When I don't have an answer, she'll say, "Call me back when you think of something." Hmmm...so you really want to see me, huh?
I think a lot of people feel hurt that you don't call them and don't want to admit they have a part in the situation. You're somehow avoiding them. That's how they see it. They might be busy or whatever, but in reality, they want to blame you in some way for the relationship not being the way they'd like it to be.
2007-02-03 20:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Angela M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a lot of people are afraid of rejection so they are too scared to pick up the phone and call someone because they dont want to hear ringing and no one answer.
for why they dont answer when you call maybe they are just self absorbed and you need to find people that will call you first or at least answer when you call.
everyone deserves great friends and people they can count on and that means you.
2007-02-03 20:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it relatively is extra cost-effective, yet when I enjoyed a woman, i might prefer to take heed to her voice. If he's texting from artwork, chatting with you, might no longer be conceivable, yet he nonetheless needs you to be attentive to, he's questioning of you. So in basic terms ask him, why he's doing that.
2016-10-01 09:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must admit I do that with guys.I will always expect them to call me first.If not, I will assume they aren't interested enough to pick up the phone and move on.That's just me!
2007-02-03 20:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it or dwell on it. Some people do it because, they are on another agenda. This will fizzle out in time. Be strong and let time pass. Things will change always for the better.
2007-02-03 20:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Tonia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most people trying to act busy and they just simply told you that are very busy when you ask them why didnt they pick your phone.
2007-02-03 20:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, people are like that. They're sitting at home alone on their computers developing agoraphobia. Find friends who want to actually relate. There are plenty.
2007-02-03 20:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by itry007 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHo cares? that's why they don't call, you're pathetic. Get a life.
2007-02-03 20:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Tumbling Dice 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋