Don't you believe that we are all bi. I mean the capacity to love has no gender.?

Answer 1

I agree, we are all bisexual. People who think they are only attracted to one sex or another are simply blocked in some way, whether it be psychological, societal, some external pressure of some kind or whatever else. Without the blockage, whatever form it may take, whatever internal mind games are at play, we are bi in our true nature. And those who protest otherwise are locked into whatever blockage has them believing/perceiving so.

Answer 2

No, straight guys are repulsed at the idea of gay sex and gay guys are disgusted at the idea of sex with a woman. If a person is attracted to both sexes they are bisexual. I do think SOME people are a little bisexual, but they’re still bisexual. If you honestly could feel how repulsed I am at the thought of sex with females you’d have your answer. That’s the problem in life, other people can’t enter into another person’s sexuality and feel what they feel.

You also have to remember that love doesn’t mean sex. There’s a lot of females in my life that I love, I probably have more female friends than males. Love them as friends and family, but can’t love them romantically.

Another problem in life is that people don’t want to accept other people’s sexuality. Some gays think bisexuals are just closet gays (I know that’s not the case). Some straights think gays will turn straight when they meet the right woman. Some bisexuals think that everyone else is really a bisexual. It all comes back to a person not being able to enter into another person’s sexual feelings.

What Harry said was true, there does seem to be a high number of bisexuals in the world. The big mistake would be to think that everyone is bisexual, I can swear on my life that just isn’t the case.

Answer 3

Nope. I'm bisexual, and I love it and wouldn't have it any other way, and I secretly wish that everyone had the capacity to be bisexual . . . but I know it's not that way.

I definitely believe that there are people out there who are 100% gay or straight, people who have never had a sexual attraction to both sexes, in any degree. I also know that most people do not fit this category; it seems everyone has the occasional stray thought, a weird moment of attraction, a secret fantasy, a wonder, a drunken moment- something that puts them on a scale somewhere between straight and gay. Whether or not that makes them bisexual, I won't say. But I know for certain that not all people are bisexual.

I definitely believe that the capacity to love has no gender, but at the same time, most people's sexuality overrides their love, and you get the love but not the desire. A precious niche of people have found that the unexpected loves of their lives have been sexually attractive to them (like a gay man falling in love with a woman, or some-such), but it's so very rare because people tend to look for what they feel they are, and our sexuality is a deeply ingrained part of ourselves. But yes, love itself is gender-blind, in my opinion.

Hope that helps!

Answer 4

I don't know if everyone is bi, but I think a whole lot more people are bit than admit it. It's a hell of a lot easier to be straight in this society, and sometimes bi people get the short end of the stick on both sides of the fence. Straight men are turned on by it, but only in a kinky way. Monogamy doesn't allow for two relationships, so if you're following society's "rules", I think many bi people end up finding someone of the opposite sex. If gay marriage was an option, maybe this would change, but who knows. The bi women I met when I was dating were extremely flaky and gay women wouldn't give me the time of day.

I get what you're trying to say, though. I know women who are gay that have had relationships with men. I know gay men that have dated/slept with straight women(and even one who would sleep with straight girls when he was bored, but still claimed to be completely gay). Love really does not know a gender, but unfortunately society likes to label things. From what I've seen, the gay community doesn't understand bisexuality(maybe "in denial"???) and the straight world see bis as kinky or oversexed.

I'm married, but if I were to find myself without a partner, I'd seriously be considering dating women again. I'd definitely leave it open. I've met fabulous people on both sides of the fence. I've had quite a few crushes on gay men, too, and there's even one I'd have married(gayness & all...LOVED HIM!). It wasn't about sex...I didn't even care...I just liked him so much!

Answer 5

The prefix, or the word "bi" means TWO, so, I don't think you thought this out. You are "bi" means you go both ways. So NO, sexuality and having the capacity to love are completely different.

Answer 6

Of course its possible to love both genders. I don't exactly believe all people are bisexual, because some people have phobias of body parts that prevent them from loving someone of a certain gender no matter how close they are to them. But in theory, if everyone where to let go of all of thier sexual inhibitions, then it'd show that all people have the capacity to love and make love to either gender, but of course the world doesn't work like that and we have inhibitions (for our own good), so not everyone is bisexual. I hope I made sense...

Answer 7

I think that each human being, when born, might be besexual at first, and that some people remain bisexual. But no, not everyone when they are teens or adults are bisexual.

Bottom line: People KNOW (internally) what their sexual orientation is -- at least by the time they are in their late teens.
And not everyone is sexually attracted to the same sex.

Having said that, do I think most MEN have the capability to be bisexual? Yes. And I think there are plenty of supposedly straight men out there who know perfectly well that they are not straight at all but bi. My estimation is around 23% of adult males are not gay or straight but bisexual.

Answer 8

There is a big difference between the love of your family and friends, and the deep stimulating love of a relationship. So, no I don't believe that everyone is bi. I believe there are different levels of love. Peoples friends do not give them "butterflies" in their stomach every time they see them. If they do, then they are IN LOVE with them.

Answer 9

I will disagree with your premise. You are using the capacity to love as something equal to sexual attraction. They are two totally different things.

I can love someone, and have no sexual desire for them. As a matter of fact, in some cases the thought of them sexually would be repulsive to me. Think about it. We can love many things. We love our children. We love our parents. We love our pets. These are different types of love, but they all are love! Of the three, I can not think of one that would be a sexual relationship. I would never look at a child in a sexual way, not would I consider an animal. It is the same thing, in my case, with other males. I can not see any situation where I could look at another man, and be sexually aroused.

Answer 10

I'm bi, and no i don't think you can mix love w/ sexual preference. i hear what your saying but I've had partners (both sex's) know indefinitely that they where only attracted to just one gender. being bi I've had this extended conversation w/ practically every partner. it nice to know though that there are open minded individuals out there. thank you for your question.

Answer 11

I don't think we ARE all bi, but I think that we should be, if that makes any sense.. I think that people as a whole should be open minded to the idea that who they fall in love with may not be what they thought. Unfortunately, too many people are scared to express the love they may feel for someone else because they have been taught that this is "wrong".