A boy supports his parents financially after marriage but a girl cant? Why this discrimination? And if girl supports her parents financially even after marriage the society taunts her parents? We say our soceity has progressed then why still our society has this taboo?
2007-02-03 19:24:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
no,i don't think so,every daughters must support their parents,no matter whether marriage is over or not,my wife still supports her parents financially,i had no problem on that ,i think it is her duty to help,if some one or some where such evil thoughts are their educate them with reality,such social evils must and forever to be removed from our society for good.
2007-02-03 19:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by ganesh n 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree that we say that the eastern societies are progressing but yet there are still so many stigmas, especially on girls and women. I think that if a girl is working after marriage she should be able to spend money on her parents, but if she is not working than it is a mutual choice between husband and wife whether or not to help their parents financially. I think it is not only society but the parents themselves who refuse help from their daughters because they feel it may cause her problems with her husband and in laws. We all know that daughters take better care of their parents throughout their lives just by being there and taking care of them, this is equally or more important than the sons jobs of supporting them financially. Progression takes time, now that more and more girls are working I think this will change and if parents need financial help they will got to both their sons or daughters equally.
2007-02-03 19:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by ashi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a court judgement in which the court has decreed that if the girl is earning she has to support her parents. But unfortunately the Indian society does not allow a married women to support her parents. If the women is strong she could support her parents. The women have to come out of the stereotype gender suppressed system and take some bold decisions.
2015-11-18 01:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by s.v.hussain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage a girl can support her parents financially ,EMOTIONALLY and in all other Fields too.
As a boy supports his parents financially after marriage .
2007-02-03 19:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by rulethisworldman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no such obligation in our culture that a girl cannot support her parents. She can and she is bound to support her parents in any ways required.
I've seen instances where the whole side of the girls in laws have supported the girls side whenever required. In two of these instances the girls relatives are staying with the girl in their in laws house with perfect harmony since last six years. And in all these instances, I haven't heard anyone around taunting the girls relatives for the same. I've practically seen a son not taking care of his father and his sisters in laws coming into picture and taking care of the issue. Yet the very same girl, instead of being obliged, considers her in laws to be mean.
It's a bit difficult for me to digest your statement. There may be exceptions in the country, but generally nobody pays attention to the issue.
:-)
2007-02-04 09:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because after marriage girls are staying with their husband in his home,not in girl's home.She has so many expenses her own and children's there.In our culture there is dowry system also.In Kerala our society has such deep rooted customs still exists.So giving money to girl's parents is not possible thing.
2007-02-03 20:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Gardener 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A girl can support her parents after marriage if she is lucky enough to have a husband who is not an MCP
2007-02-03 20:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I m not astro Guru but i can say that astro facts can also be changed or affected by ur own efferts. It's ur begining in the job so only should concentrate on job. Rest will itself became in your favour. To Mircat: she is asking in Yahoo india. To Stephani : Better to answer her question.
2016-03-15 06:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are home managers who budget family income like expenses for baby milk, schooling, leisure and savings for health care, etc. She can hardly buy brazzier for herself. If she support her parents is tabooed because she is separated from her family and cleae to her husband.
2007-02-03 19:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by wilma m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think this is a problem in my country (indonesia)...
in fact it is common knowledge that the daughters pay more attention to the care of their parents (financially n physically) than the sons, even after they r married...
^^
2007-02-03 19:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Pink Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋