I AM MIDDLE AGE AND HAD BEEN IN A LONG TERM MARRIAGE. WHEN I STARTED SEEING THIS GUY I COULD
FIRST LET ME SAY I WASNT THE LEAST BIT ATTRACTED TO HIM BUT I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM BEFORE I EVEN REALIZED
WHAT WAS HAPPENING, I JUST FOUND MYSELF THINKING
ABOUT HIM WHICH REALLY CAUGHT ME OFF GUARD. AS I
GOT TO KNOW HIM JUST COULDN'T BELEIVE HOW HE MADE
ME FEEL AND THE BIGGEST SHOCK WAS THE LEVEL OF
SATISFACTION I GOT IN THE INTIMACY DEPT. I DIDN'T EVEN
KNOW IT COULD BE LIKE THAT. WE DIDN'T DO ANYTHING
THAT I HADN'T DONE BEFORE JUST NORMAL ACT OF
INTIMACY BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN ONE TO FEEL LIKE
I COULD DO THIS ALL NIGHT, WHY WAS IT SO DIFFERENT,
IS IT BECAUSE I LOVED HIM FROM THE INSIDE OUT OR HE
JUST TREATED ME SO WELL THAT THAT AFFECTS EVERYTHING TO THAT DEGREE. I DON'T KNOW IF I'VE
JUST HAD NEVER REALLY KNOW WHAT TRUE LOVE IS OR
WHAT CAUSED IT TO BE SO AWESOM.
2007-02-03 19:19:49 · 9 answers · asked by ndyredroses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I didn't read your caps but intimacy is like laying your soul out for someone to stomp on...and they don't.
2007-02-03 19:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes to all of your own answers. Same age as you and it happened to me in the last 6 years. Once you have had it...hard to go back to less. I think our age has a LOT to do with it. You finally reach an age where you can truly connect with someone on many levels...its awesome! Dont know what to tell you about your marriage though. If you plan on staying in it..then best to end the affair as you are headed for huge heartache and disappointment in every arena. Also, if you think you might find that same intimacy with someone else...think again...the chemistry between you and your lover could be perfect for you and you might not find it again...sadly enough.
2007-02-04 03:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by reclusive_n_fine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "new love" always involves the brain producing a new rush
of chemicals....You have betrayed your marriage for a drug rush.
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Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that a consistent number of chemicals are present in the brain when people testify to feeling love. These chemicals include; Testosterone, Oestrogen, Dopamine, Norepinephrine, Serotonin, Oxytocin, and Vasopressin. More specifically, higher levels of Testosterone and Oestrogen are present during the lustful phase of a relationship. Dopamine, Norepinephrine, and Serotonin are more commonly found during the attraction phase of a relationship. Oxytocin, and Vasopressin seemed to be more closely linked to long term bonding and relationships characterized by strong attachments.
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2007-02-04 03:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you finally found your soul mate. Intimacy can be exhilarating just because it's new too though so you need to examine the relationship carefully before you make any big changes in your life.
2007-02-04 03:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is a great feeling that makes everything sooo.. ( you know )
and because you're with him not just phesiclly but also by heart
2007-02-04 03:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by fo6a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a warm way of feeling how someone feels for you. A beautiful way of expressing how you feel too. Dont loose that ever, its the one thing that cannot be beaten by something else.
2007-02-04 03:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we for me it was my husband was my best friend so i knew him in side out and i tell ya it was like The 4th of JULY the first time we made love but that is how it was for me......i have had sex with other men but my husband has been the only one who had ever made it that grate for me and i was like you was not even looking when i found him so i hope that helps you
2007-02-04 05:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww thats beatiful.
lol I think you answered your own question there
2007-02-04 03:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by ɷ▫▪вяøκeи;;♥ иøт đefeαтeđ▪▫ɷ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is and always will be a mystery.
2007-02-04 03:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by seven-11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋