when i meet people, it takes me a while to become closer with them, im kinda shy, i hate when its akward quiet. What should I talk about and how could I make myself to talk more??
2007-02-03 19:00:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'M THE SAME WAY ,PEOPLE ARE INTIMIDATED BY ME PROBLY COUSE I HAVE A SERIOUS FACE ,LIKE WHEN IM AT SCHOOL I SIT WITH A FRIEND AND SHE IS SITTING WITH HER FRIENDS AND I START A CONVERSATION EVERYBODY STAYS QUIET BESIDES MY FRIEND WHO IM TALKING TO .I WANT TO TALK TO THEM BUT IM SHY MYSELF WHEN IT GETS TO THE POINT TO TALK TO SOME ONE .I THINK PEPLE THINK IM STUCK UP,I WANT TO PROVE THEM IM NOT ,BUT ITS HARD FOR ME TOO.,IM SUGGESTING GO FOR IT BE FRIENDLY THINK IT LIKE THIS,BE THE ONE WHO IS COOL AND FUN ,TRY YOUR BEST TO BE OUTSPOKEN AND KEEP UP A GOOD CONVERSATION,BECAUSE STAYING QUIET WONT GET PEOPLE TO NOTICE YOU,JUST BE FRIENDLY ASK QUESTIONS LIKE WHERE DID YOU GET THOSE SHOES,OR THAT S A NICE SHIRT.JUST REMEMBER THIS,BE THE ONE TO GET TO THEM FIRSTAND DONT WAIT FOR THEM TO GET TO YOU.
2007-02-03 19:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kinda similar to you and my trick is: ask them lots of questions so that they talk more than you. Remember, people like to talk about themselves.
2007-02-04 03:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some self confidence and be yourself!!!
2007-02-04 03:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by mommy.luv.jordyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u think that he/she is my friends.
2007-02-04 03:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by vidhya k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋