For no apparent reason I feel like I have lost interest in my gf. She didnt do anything wrong and theres no other girl so whats my problem? Anyone get this ever?
2007-02-03 18:41:59 · 26 answers · asked by KINGPIN22 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Is your life really that boring, is your excitement threshold really that thick? Or do you think you never really had an interest to begin with, but just used her?
2007-02-04 06:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is quite normal to start seeing someone and without any warning, lose interest. Sometimes, we don't know enough about the other person or even ourselves at the time when we started seeing each other. And sometimes, body chemistry has a lot to do with it. The best thing to do is just be honest about how you feel. Waiting for a change to happen only makes things worse.
Next time, try getting to know the girl a little better before you make her your gf. And yourself. Know what it is you are looking for in a relationship and know exactly what it is that you like so much in your partner.
2007-02-03 18:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by a17blossom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I am currently caught in that tangled web. I just lost all interest in the bf. I broke up. He can't get it in his head that I just lost feelings. Like you said there is not anyone else. Nor do I want anyone else right now. Sorry it is a hard thing to deal with or explain.
2007-02-03 20:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by jipp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I been there, done that, and wrote the book on losing interest in my boyfriends. I like them initially but after awhile it isn't intriguing or exciting. It is perfectly normal, maybe you just don't have a connection or compatible with her but you like her as a person. I found it best to remain single and unattached before I commit myself to a person in the long run instead of breaking their hearts. Try to shake things up and find new ways to reconnect and if that doesn't work maybe it isn't meant to be right now.
2007-02-03 18:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're probably bored. How long have you been dating? Do you still go on dates? Do new things? Try doing something spontaneous and exciting. Add crazy stuff to your sex life too. For example, tie a blindfold around each others eyes during the whole thing. It's intense.
2007-02-03 18:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by mbrdrck 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the chum point relatively sucks. i'm sorry for you guy. with a bit of luck, she'll comprehend she is probably going incorrect and issues will artwork out. in basic terms make specific she nonetheless is familiar with you care.
2016-10-01 09:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have hag that problem at lot it seems. See as a man It is natural for us not to want to be with just one person.You may feel like you still love her , but acully it is just the comfortable feeling of knowing her.Take my advise move on. you may get your interest back but you will lose it again and next time it will be more and cause you both more pain
2007-02-03 18:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by shawn m 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
maybe you haven't lost interest in her ,maybe you have just run out of things to talk about. spruce up the sex life by watching alot of porn together. the good raunchy stuff.
maybe hang out with some Friends more and maybe become a little romantic once in a while.PSST! (I heard they like that sort of thing!!)
2007-02-03 18:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by kirk f 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You answered your own question. You simply lost interest, and that is something that you couldn't help. Just don't string her on in hopes of not hurting her feelings. You would hurt her feelings alot more if you stayed when you don't want to.
2007-02-03 18:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Thumper 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes I have. you just need something new in life to do or you might just need a break from each other a while. like go on vacation alone. you got to spurce up the life with her or you will be feeling worse then you are now.
2007-02-03 18:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋