for some reason i keep on having visons that my dad did stuff to me when I was a kid. I can sort of see it and sort of remeber it but im not sure...I just remember one day of what happened..I know my dad is also a sex addict, I dont know why im having these visons its grossing me out, what is this, I think something did happen...I just dont know. I tried to tell my mom but when i remeber what happened she wasnt home and she told me that my father would never do that...am I crazy? or is it normal to have thse visons?
2007-02-03 18:38:00 · 10 answers · asked by kyah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my dad was molested as a child
2007-02-03 18:48:02 · update #1
i think there's more to it then you realize...I hope it didn't happen to you...but if you are having thoughts about it, I would definitely find someone else to talk to. ( a trusted adult...you aren't crazy...find resources to explore how you feel) if this isn't resolved you will live with the pain. I feel for you...if it was my daughter, i would listen and ask questions, and thank God that she can come to me with questions, which she always does...good luck, i wish you well.
2007-02-03 18:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by some normal person 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know people tend to forget that kids are people too; especially when remembering things that happen at that age. No I don't think your crazy because if you keep seeing these vision then it is trying to tell you something. Talk to your mother and explain to her as to why you are having these visions. Especially if you really feel uncomfortable. If she goes into the denial stage then you should talk to someone that has been in this type of situation. There is always a reason for everything.
Best Wishes,
Kimberly H
2007-02-03 18:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistics say that most molesters go on in life to molest others.
Thoughts to ponder :
Is is possible that "OTHERS" haven't stirred up your emotional senses into thinking about things that didn't happened ?
What I mean is > did relatives or friends talk about instances regarding abuse, that got your emotions stirred up in such a way... that now you are having dreams or visions of things that really didn't happen to you, but you think they did.
People have a way of suggesting things in such a subtle fashion enough times to your subconscience, that you can almost begin to believe they are almost true. The best swindlers can minipulate people & situations to work in THEIR favor to get the results they want. Say for example, if the parents in law didn't like your father & wanted to make him look bad or get rid of him. What better way, then to make him guilty of something as henous as child abuse. It's just a thought mind you. But you should make absolutely sure of yourself before you accuse anyone of anything.
*** If you find that still all your reasoning points you to these same visions & answers, then it must be so. Listen to your gut feeling, it is never wrong.... no matter what others say, they will deceive you.... it won't.
If that is the case, do what must be done ..... FOR YOU.
Get your satisfaction in, whatever it is ..... you've earned it.
Then hang his butt out from the rafters for the buzzards to eat.
2007-02-03 18:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by ccchevydude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um, u gotta ask urself these main questions:
do u love ur dad despite that he's an addict, and despite ur visions?
do u really want the truth about the past?
from answer these, u should be able to organize ur thoughts/emotions.
as for the "normal" part...only a therapist can help u girl (there are wayyyy too many aspects to this issue and u as a person for any newb to tell u the diff between strange and normal).
2007-02-03 18:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by roro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could go either way i guess, i mean how long have you been having these visions compared to when you learned of his addiction? and also, did he get help? my understanding of sex addicts is that they are just that and it's uncommon for them to stop. So if he had, i would presume that it would have gone on until an another person found out about it and stopped it, which would mean someone would know that you had, or it would have continued into an age where you'd know that it's a real memory.
2007-02-03 18:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Χαλαρά 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.......i guess its not ur vision cos anybody wont think 4 father like that so jus let me tell u things happened with u was a dream or a imagination of things tht is happenin nowadays in this generation so be chill when things come to ur mind jus take deep breaths and try to get busy with somthin else i jus hope this will help u out ...........and let me know abt it choa take care
2007-02-03 18:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by sajjan ria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to a counselor. If your dad is a sex addict, it's possible, especially if you have visions like that.
2007-02-03 18:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jan111154 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...these are signs of bad things that may have happened and just now coming up. Get help, go to someone to get advise.
2007-02-03 19:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by V. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child abuse is very common.Just put everything out of your mind.Thinking about it will lead you nowhere.
2007-02-03 18:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow..that just freaked me out.
2007-02-03 18:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋